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what should i do when you have a 3 year old child and your boyfriend of your baby dad hurts you by cheating?
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you should talk to your boyfriend and tell him that either the cheating stops or you'll leave him. Taht way he'll face up to his responsibilities and more than likely, the cheating will stop. After all what would you rather do - jump in at the deep end, have a go at your man and him get mad and leave or would you rather talk it through with him and see his points?
Good luck with whatever you decide to do
Love
RiverPhoenixsGirl
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I disagree with riverphoenixsgirl
If you stay with him then what type of example are you setting for your child? Yeah It's okay to hurt the one you love..yeah it's okay to lie and cheat, yeah it's okay to forgive the unforgivable.
I'm a little pa__sionate, but my ex promised several times to never cheat again and he always did. If you threaten to leave you must be prepared to do so, or everytime you threaten he'll walk all over you knowing you'll never leave.
good luck with whatever your choice may be, but honestly, if your asking a bunch of strangers on the net, then I think you already know what you need to do. Now all you need is some support in kicking his b___t to the curb because let me tell you it's gonna be tough!!
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I disagree with riverphoenixsgirlIf you stay with him then what type of example are you setting for your child? Yeah It's okay to hurt the one you love..yeah it's okay to lie and cheat, yeah it's okay to forgive the unforgivable.I'm a little pa__sionate, but my ex promised several times to never cheat again and he always did. If you threaten to leave you must be prepared to do so, or everytime you threaten he'll walk all over you knowing you'll never leave.good luck with whatever your choice may be, but honestly, if your asking a bunch of strangers on the net, then I think you already know what you need to do. Now all you need is some support in kicking his b___t to the curb because let me tell you it's gonna be tough!!
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Talk to him make him choose between that new friend he has and his family. If he doesn't give you an anwser, Dump him! I'm sorry to be so blunt, but that's what I would do.
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I'm a relationship counsellor and the only thing I say is when someone cheats it is the only thing that CANNOT be fixed you loose loyality trust respected you hurt its better to leave and be happy with someone who comes to you to make love
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