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Im a christian, me and my faince plan to get married, she is stil a virgin. Im 26 she is 28. I'm having difficuilties with my s_xual drive. My question is, is it un healthy not to mastrubate. I need help i have pains in my groin and i have not had any mastrubatin for a long time as I dont even know if it is sin or not. Please help with good advise. Thanks
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I have gone a long time with out masturbating before and noticed that after awhile my s_x drive drops dramatically. If you are having pains I would check for lumps because testicular cancer is common but if caught early not a threat to your life or chance to have children. In terms of mastubating I would go ahead and do it, your s_x life with your future wife is going to become an important part of your relationship and you want to make sure that your stuff is fuctioning correctly. ED is also a common occurance and something that you want to know you have before your wedding night so you can plan ahead and have a pill ready. Whether or not mastubating is a sin or not is not something that I would be too worried about. Do it once and if you don't have any problems then don't do it again if you are worried about sinning. I will warn you though you might want to close to the first time with your wife becuase if you haven't in a while you aren't going to last very long and you don't want to disappoint her on the first night.
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masterbation a sin!?!?! i know you may not want advice from a female but i have to say- you can't survive without s_xual pleasure. if you are waiting until marriage masturbation is definately the way to go.
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Hey I think it is very nobel of you to wait till you are married why torture yourself further by keeping all that inside?? I would think masterbation is not a sin and God admires your sancrety to marriage.
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