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im 15 and my ex-girlfriend is pregnant. i dont like her anymore though and i have a different girlfriend right now. shes almost due and threw out the whole pregnancy has been trying to get back with me. im gunna be there for my son and everything but i dont know what to do about her. ive told her i dont like her anymore and she had to get over it. but she still loves me and doesnt wanna move on. should i just continue dating my curtain girlfriend or try again to be a family with her?
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 | Ben - December 5 |
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any relationship to the poster of 'a guys point of veiw'?
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if it didn't work with her before.. it's not gonna work now especially with the stress of having a new baby... it would be great if you had your family however you can't develope feelings where there isn't any...be there for your son as much as possible and try to understand that your ex only wants her family to be right... i'm not saying to get back with her but you also have to understand that if fighting and you walking in and out of there lives because the two of you ( you and your ex) can't seem to make things work, it will only hurt your son. be true to yourself and then take it from there. good luck sweetie
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to ben: no but that is weird
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| Ben - December 10 |
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I've been away for the week so I couldn't reply back . You're right it is a coincidence that's why I asked . I'd say the same thing to you as the girl in 'a guys point of veiw' because really you both have alot of time to sort things out and you're young . If you can keep the relationship do so ! respect her and love her for being the mother of you're child . You will understand what I'm saying as time goes on and as you grow older whether you like her or not .
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your feelings might change after the baby is born. if not, you cant make yourself love her. so just be there for her and support her. but just keep the possibility open that you may fall back in love with her, once she gets the baby
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 | js - December 10 |
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If you don't like her now, you will more then likely not in the future weather she has your child or not. She will eventually get over you. Keep your current girlfriend and be there for your child - that's all you can do. She'll grow up. To make a relationship with her and you don't like her will only hurt your child in the long riun and will not do anyone any good.
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