Relationship Advice About Daddys
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what would you do if you and your bf/gf broke up and you two were about to have a newborn anytime, and you want them back in your life? part of me wants him back but then the other part says let him go, but im scared to cause hes the only one ive been with for a year and i know theres not a man out there whos going to wanna be with a 15 year old teenage mother to be.. im kinda just scared to move on with out him there with me, ya know.
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Let him and move on. You're still young. It's not the end of the world. I know it's easier said than done, but sweetie, you have to think about yourself too. What do you expect from a guy who's leaving a girl like you, knowing that you two are going to have a baby anytime? If come's back to you, then he's meant to be yours. If not, accept it and move on. Think what's best for you and for your baby. Pray. Merry X'mas!
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opppssss... *if he comes back to you...
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Learn from this and don't have s_x anymore until you find a guy good enough to marry you first and provide you next baby with a solid home to be born into.
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You are probably better off without him right now.Sorry to say this but, he doesn't sound like much of a catch, honey. You are 15.How old is he?Has he been on Dateline? Or is he old enough to work and pay child support? Also, finding a boyfriend is the least of your concerns now. Your lovelife is on the back burner.You aren't first in your world anymore.The little person who didn't ask to be born into such a confused situation is first.I'll pray for you both.
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i was in a similar situation a while back, my ex was pregnant with our second child when we split and as much as i wanted to get back together, if nothing else for the sake of the children, i had to come to terms with the fact i was going to be a part time dad. it is n ow 7 years later and i have found the most wonderful woman in the world and we have a beautiful baby boy..... I know this is gonna sound harsh but you need to move on and concenttrate on you and your little one
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You are still young, and you deserve a better life and be with a better man..
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I would have to say if he is going to leave you in this time of need, then you dont need to be with him anyway. My sister had a similar situation. She went through her whole pregnancy with her bf "supposedly" by her side, then after she had her son she found out the guy had been cheating on her. Finally she realized (after many people had told her to get rid of the guy) that he was not right for her. You have to think of what is right for you, and although it was hard on her she knows now (almost 2 years later) that it was one of the best decisions that she could have made. Good luck on your decision. I know its a hard one, but like most people on here have said you need to think about you and your baby. God bless. :)
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When your young, broken hearts aren't uncommon. It seems couples break up just as easy as they come together. Right now just focus on loving yourself, and your baby. You don't need anything else right now. If he desides to come back to be a dad, great, if not don't waste your time fretting over it. You still need to live the rest of your life, and you will meet many more boys in the future that will far surpa__s this jerk!
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