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My situation is different than those here on the forum. I am not the bio-dad...I was someone who the birth mom was really into for awhile. I felt she needed to address a few things at the time, and so I turned her down. Now she is pregnant by someone else and my feelings have changed, especially because he doesn't seem too invested in being a dad
Early on, conversation seemed normal. We were chatting, everything seemed great, and then she started to block my accounts. One, by one, by one. She is currently at 29/30 weeks and I'm certain she has blocked my phone number recently. I was cautioned by someone who has had children, that it is normal for them to draw close to the bio-dad, even if they're less than ideal
This could be the reason I have been mostly kicked to the curb
Does this seem likely? Is this an instinctual thing?
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For what its worth, I'm not taking this *too* personally, it seems that hormones are definitely at play here. Its her first, and it wasn't with someone she was seeing regularly. We have an almost 10 year age gap, but I'd be lying if I said that ANY of this has been easy. It absolutely has not
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