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he will even hardly speak to either of us and when i want to come over to the house to see brooke my gf he wont let me in the house to see her if he is home or wont give her my phone calls but i know he is protecting her since i also have a little sister and she is 12.

Just give him some time. He won't stay p__sed forever. What's your plans as far as living arrangements go after the baby is born?

well we decided that the baby should live with her until we graduate high school then we will move into our own place and raise the baby and her house has alot more room than mine does

i srue give you alot of credit for steppin up with this. i wouldnt worry to much about her brother, he will get over it, and if he dosnt then too bad for him. this is going to be a long tuff road for the two of you, good luck and congrats on the little bambino!

yeah but im scared about all of this but im afraid im giving my little sister a bad example i dont want her to be like me im already giving her a bad example

skaterboy: the best thing you can do for your sister is show her what being a parent is really about. show her how hard its going to be on both you and your girlfriend. and show her not all guys are a__s holes, and not to have s_x enless she is ready to be a mom. you are a real man for supporting your girlfriend and not hiding it form everyone

skterboy just a question because this is what my husband and I did when I got pregnant in high school. He actually moved into my parents house with me through the pregnancy and afterwards for a while. It was really nice having him really be able to help with the baby from the start like that. I was a junior though so I didn't have much longer in school but just a thought. Oh and I have a brother who is 5 years older and was so mad when I got pregnant but he got to know my now husband and when he realized he was going to be a dad not some jerk who left it made it all better. Don't worry.

oh i dont doubt that you are scared. My bf was and still is terrified and he is much older than you. He is worried he wont be a good dad and cause he has no experience with kids. I keep telling him not to worry, you have to take things a day at a time. This will be my second so its easier for me, but with my first, everyday is a learning experience still for me. I think you will do just fine, you are already well on your way to being a good dad, just for supporting your girlfriend and not running. congrats to you.

i just want the best for her and sometimes i get mad cuz like when me and my gf and friends are at my house they look at my sis and smile at her and she does the same and sometimes i wonder like if they makeout or have s_x i know its a weird thing to ask but it is bothering me . sometimes i think she is not a virign but she tells me she is and i dont want her to get mad at me for accusing her for the wrong thing

do you all really think we are doing the right thing by keeping the baby? i know it will be hard though but im starting to get scared about being a father cuz ill get to miss out hanging with all my friends and partying. i just dont know if im doing the right thing

reading your last statement makes me very sad....your gf is going to bring a beautiful baby into this world that is a part of you and her and all you can think about is the hanging out with friends and partying???...all your focus should be on the child and what your gf is going through right now....sure partying is all fun and stuff but take my advice once you get into thinking about the baby and what you're going to name it and what ya'll want the room to look like and all that partying will be the last thing on ur mind...being there for ur gf and the baby is the most important matter....i know you might miss your friends but you have to think of the family you're starting would you want to give up your child just so you can go party??....i know u seem like a smart kid so im sure once you think about it you'll see what i mean....babies are a blessing....partying is trouble....just remember that and you'll be ok....good luck to you both....jess

i know keeping the ababy is want we want but im just scared cuz i know this will be very hard and will cost alot of money sometimes i feel like i let my family down by doing this and like i said before i dont want my sister to be like me to. but im happy about the baby even though we wont find out for quite a while we keep wondering what the s_x is and how we are doing the room she is happy about becoming a mom but she says she wished her brother would support her

would you all say im doing a good job so far about this by staying with her no matter what finishing school and hopefully get a job whenever/if i can? my parents tell me that they are proud of me for standing up to this and being a man

skaterboy, I've been reading your story, and you certainly seem like a really good young man, and have really stepped up to the plate. It will be tough at times, but keep to your plans and be there for her and your baby, finish school, and start your life. You may have some friends that will put a lot of pressure on you, but always remember YOU are doing the RIGHT thing ... more power to you!

you can make this the most positive experience of your life. it has the potential to be amazing. so, having s_x at 15, unprotected sometimes, wasn't the smartest thing to do--but you already know that-- now, you can do stand up, prove to everyone what a great guy you are and take responsibility for your desicions and possibly get the biggest reward out of it that you can get. 1.) KNOW that it's not going to be easy--hell no, you're going to feel like pulling your hair out of your head at times 2.) From this point in time try to think "WHAT IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO FOR THIS BABY?"--that should be your mantra. Skaterboy, I am so sorry to hear that this has happened to you at such an inopportune time, but I believe things happen for a reason. You have this amazing opportunity now---that babe didn't decide to be concieved-you did. Tell your parents and her parents, together. They're going to be soooo shocked/emotion/p__sed at first. Give them that. Be bigger than their reaction. Get as much help/support as you can. Parents are a good place to start. There's the Public Health Nurse--you can find a number in the yellow pages. She'll set you and your gf up with some community resources and possibly the health care your gf needs...if you need anymore help, please don't hesitate to email smilefull at hotmail dot com..if your girlfriend needs to talk feel free to pa__s it along. Best of luck skaterboy.

Hey, skaterboy i got pregnant on my 15th birthday im 17 now and i kept my baby she is called paris and she is the most perfect human being ever. But yea thew whole way through pregnancy me and my b/f thought what if omg this is the wrong thing but as soon as she arrived all that went and everything came together it was a stuggle at first but honestly you seem very mature and you and your girlfriend can do this dont worry it will be okay :).Me and my boyfriend have been togther over 4 years i did get expelled from skule for being pregnant but im starting traingin to become a midwife just as soon as paris startd pre-shcool so your life isnt over ok good luck and keep your chin up!!