Bedtime Routines Do You Have One
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My daughter is 4 and a half weeks, and still doesn't have a routine. Do you have a bedtime routine for your baby? If so, what is it? When did you start it, and what time do you put them down? Thanks, from a clueless, first-time mommy. :)
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We syarted right away doin a bath, then bottle, then bed. She is 6 months now and has know fir awhike that a bath means a bottle is coming and then goes right to bed. If she misses her bath it is a rough night.
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At 4.5 weeks don't expect much Lissi. 4.5 months... maybe! We have a routine: it consists of me holding and rocking her to sleep while I sing some lullabys and the stereo is playing a running faucet I recorded from our kitchen faucet! After about 45 minutes she falls asleep, wakes up after 10 minutes, and as soon as I pick her up she falls asleep, I put her back on her crib and she sleeps throught the night. Not a good one, but that 45 minute rocking and walking with her is also my workout! :-)
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my daughter is 7.5 months and we started her bedtime routime around 3 months. It consists of a bath, then a story, then a bottle, then we put her in her crib AWAKE. She goes to bed around 7:30 and sleeps until 7 the next morning. It wasn't always that easy though. She was addicted to sleeping in her swing and wanted nothing to do with her bed from about 4 weeks to 3 months. Doc gave the best advice. Put her in her bed and let her cry it out. Took her 3 hours but it worked. Now she goes right to sleep. I wouldn't recommend that for another couple months though. The best you can hope for at 4 weeks is to get any sleep at all. Good luck
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My daughter is 5 weeks old and our very simple routine on a good night consists of bathtime, getting dressed and cuddling, nursing and rocking, then sleepytime! (if we're lucky) she's still so young that I don't expect bedtime to go as planned all the time. Last night, she didn't fall asleep until 1:30 AM, then woke up at 3. Some nights she sleeps for like 6 hours though :)
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it takes time, at 4 and a half weeks she'd fall asleep drinking her milk then we would pray she would stay asleep as we put her down. she developed a routine on her own, accidental though and we kept going every night, it wasnt til around maybe 3 months, she has a bath, bottle and gets put in her ba__sinett awake and she talks to her toys above it til she falls asleep, it was just by chance one day we put her in and she didnt cause a scandal so it kept going ever since.. i still get a day time scandal, she is still in the ba__sinett at 5 mths would u believe and i gotta take her out and into a cot...... it will happen naturally for u but dont expect too much just yet, she is in bed by 830, 9 which is late for a baby and wakes anywhere from 6 til 8, occasionally 9
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just some additional advice when she gets that little bit older or as soon as u can try to get outta the habit of putting her to sleep in ur arms if u do as the others have mentioned, if u can do what tracey and i do, put her to bed awake life is a whole lot easier as i dont imagine its pleasant when u have a heavy 7 mth old boofer still wanting to be rocked in ur arms, u can make it hard for urself and altho im a first time parent i have tried my hardest not too, good luck
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yes we have a routine. at around 7:30 he gets a bath, then a lotion ma__sage, then his bottle with dim lights and i use to play cla__sical music but stop that because I dont want that to turn into a habbit....then he is put to sleep in his crib most of the time awake...he will just start sucking on his fingers and falls asleep. Today I am trying dream feeding which means I will be going to get him around 11 pm and feeding him another bottle. this is suppose to help them sleep throuh the night a little better. your baby is still very young...I dont think we started a routine until after 6 weeks and I was desperate for more sleep and needed to do something....fast.
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Monica, that lotion ma__sage is excellent!
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With Gabriel I start bathing him at about 7-ish. I use that J&J Bedtime Bath oil in the water, then follow up with the same Bedtime Lotion. Its supposed to calm and relax fussy babies. Smells like Chamomile and Lavendar. I use the shampoo too! I use Dove Baby wash for the soap. I even have the same scented baby powder that I rub under his arm pits, and feet, because he sweats sometimes. Then I give him a bottle (drinks about 4oz.) Then I lay him in his crib, turn on his Light-Up piano, and he's out like a light! The past 4 days he's been sleeping throught the night. I'm a firm believer in aromatherapy. Certain scents are soothing and relaxing. If you dont want to use scented products, or can't, then try lighting a scented candle and place it in the room. Also I've noticed lately that if Gabriel is in his crib, and I vacuumn in his room, he falls asleep immediately. ( So I do that daily at nap time, if he is unsettled.)
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My daughter is now three weeks old. She loves being able to flail around, but every night (approx 9pm right now) we put her in Pj's, and wrap her in a velcro swaddle blanket. (from Babies R Us) Then we put a hat on her as well. She usually falls asleep the first time in between 11 and 1, but that's the only time she is swaddled, and she only wears a hat at bedtime and when we go outside. She still manages to kick out of the bottom of the blanket, but she sleeps in her ba__sinet much better at night than she will during the day. It's like she knows that the blanket means sleep for a longer period of time. Well, most nights. :)
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