Infants Dogs Vent

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Jen - August 17

First I would like to say, I know some people love dogs, I can understand that, I love cats. I just am angry about SOME dog owners when it comes to my baby. I do not like dogs at all, I have had several very bad experiences with them when I was you and a friend had half of her face ripped off by a dog when I was a child. Currently unless the dog is under 10lbs I don't want them anywhere near me or my son. So anyway, When I'm walking my son he smiles at the people that are walking their dogs and he will stare and they will bring their dogs over and let them jump all over his stroller getting dirt on it and him. He's small and most people near me have giant 40+lbs dogs and I do not feel safe for them to be around me son. I get very angry that dog owners have no concern that some people dont want to pet their dog or play with it. They may be ok with the dirt and the shedding put its not my pet and I am not. Its has happened enough times over the summer that I will cross to the other side of the street if I see someone walking down with their dog. Ok, I'm done. I just had to get that out.

 

Hi - August 17

Don't let you fear of dogs rub off on your son, not that you don't have good reason to be afraid of them. Obviously, he is not afraid of them yet. I can also understand the dirt p__sing you off too, but most people who own animals know them very well. I don't believe anyone who knew they had a vicious dog or just one who doesn't like children would let your son play with their dog. My cat HATES small children, if he can hide he will. Some kids just don't get it and will chase him. That's when I have to tell them to stop because if you corner him, he's not going down without a fight.

 

Delores - September 5

I Love my dog. If you have a child I would recommend a small, clam loving dog which would be a daucshund. They are the friendlys dog you'll ever know

 

Lynn - September 6

I have 2 dogs that are medium sized (65-70 pounds) that I frequently walk in my neighborhood. When small children or babies smile & show interest in them I will bring them within arms lenght of the child, but restrain them enough so that the child has to reach out to pet them. Some kids smile & then when they get close get scared so I let the kid make the first move towards them. Both of my dogs like kids & babies but big dogs can be overwhelming to some people. Don't teachyour son to hate dogs just because you don't care for them (even if you have good reason to not like them). Teach him how to act around animals and how to treat animals kindly and with respect. You never know, you may teach him to hate dogs & then he'll want to bring pet snakes home or something. I believe that it is important to expose our children to everything that we can possibly expose them to for their benefit & ours.

 

Add - September 6

I have a dog and have been an animal lover all of my life. And although I do not agree about the not liking dogs thing, I certainly agree about not having them jump up and lick all over babies. I have a 4 month old and would never allow a dog (especially someone elses) to jump up on my son. I also do not allow my 3 year old to pet any dog I don't know. You just never know....I don't want him bit! I also do not let my dog go near other children when she is being walked. Dogs can be set off by small things...

 

Leanna - September 6

I'm glad you shared this b/c I have a dog-He's small though-7lb. poodle-anyway, I'm glad you've mentioned b/c when we are walking, although the mothers, and babies seem to want my puupy to come say hi, maybe they don't, so now I know to be sure first. Thank you. Honestly, usually I'm in such a hurry, or not feeling like a long walk (I'm currently 8 weeks preg.) so I'd rather skip not stop anyway, you know what I mean? Now I won't feel as bad when I walk around them quickly with a smile :)

 

DogLover - September 8

Please don't blame dogs, blame the owners. Many dogs are ok with babies, but never should someone approach the baby with a dog unless they have your ok, which I'd never give. Owners don't know for sure how their dog will react to a strange baby. I also need to say, Dachshunds are very prone to back injuries and are not an ideal pet for babies or young children. There are breeds much better suited.

 

Okapi - September 9

Dogs are evil. If it has teeth, it can bite. Human beings included.

 

AS - September 12

Kids and dogs are both wonderful. I do agree keep the dogs at arm length to the kids. My dog is small and friendly but when he get frightened by many small kids he will jump and this can be dangerous. I like to get down to the kids level and hold my dog sometimes as I know I have better countrol of the situation.

 

Jbear - September 13

I've been scared of dogs since I was a child. My sister was attacked when she was 5, and had to have 300 st_tches to reattach her nose and close her throat. So I've been scared of dogs forever...but I don't want my daughter to be scared of them. I will let her pet dogs when we're out walking, after we've asked the dog owner's permission, and after she's put her hand out for the dog to sniff. She's not very gentle, so we avoid little dogs. I get really scared when I see a big dog running loose, without a leash or an owner in sight. I want to grab my daughter and stuff her in a tree...but instead we go inside and call to report the loose dog.

 

to Dog Lover - September 13

I have wanted a Jack Russell forever! My husband hates small "rat" dogs, Jack Russells especially, his evil step mother had one. Anyway, I WILL have this dog, how are they with small children?

 

e - September 13

okapi.....you are weird.

 

Jennifer - September 14

I am a dog lover, but I definitley agree that people should not let their dogs jump on your childs stroller or get into your baby's face. I love my dog, but would never allow him to do that. Dogs need training and discipline to be allowed around children, no 40 pound dog should be allowed to jump onto adults much less babies strollers. The next time you are out, when you see the dog is about to jump on the stroller, turn the stroller away and say NO in a firm voice. This should get the message across to both the dog his owner.

 

Jennifer - September 14

This is to dog lover, I also think Jack Russells are adorable dogs with lots of personality, but please take my advice, We have good friends who own one, and they are very,VERY hyper dogs. It will need a lot of your time and attention. They can also be nippy dogs. I suggest going onto the AKC website, they have a lot of really good information about the different breeds and their temperments. It will tell you which breeds are good with children, house dogs, herders and etc...Also there was a story in the newspaper here a few months back about a Jack Russell getting into a babies crib and nawing on the babies foot. Jack Russells have an amazing ability to jump very high.

 

Dog Lover - September 15

Jack Russell Terriers can be energetic, but it depends on the dog and what you do with it. Are you willing to walk the dog and keep him from becoming bored? If so, it could work. If not, there might be problems. Kids and dogs need to be taught from day one to respect each other. I highly recommend obedience cla__ses, no matter the breed. I recommend thinking about what traits you want in a dog and what ones you don't: consider size, coat type, temperment, exercise requirements, etc. Think about your lifestyle as well: apartment or house, fenced or unfenced yard, home often or gone alot, etc. After you come up with a list I would research as many breeds as possible to see which ones are more likely to suit your family's wants and needs. I also strongly recommend contacting a reputable breeder, shelter or rescue. Please don't be put off by dogs in shelters or rescue. They're not problems dogs, they're most often turned in or dumped because of human issues. At all costs avoid pet stores and puppy mills. They're in it for profit, so you take a risk health and temperment wise. You want to purchase or adopt from someone who puts the dog first and will be honest with you. Sorry to ramble. : )

 

Dog Lover - September 15

Forgot to ask, how old are your children?

 

Dog Lover - September 15

Found some "worst case" info, hope it helps: "The points here have evolved over the years, and represent the worst case scenario of owning a Jack Russell Terrier. Many experienced, as well as inexperienced, dog owners are overwhelmed by the demands of a Jack Russell Terrier, leading to the dogs being abandoned into Russell Rescue, Inc. even before they reach adulthood! Jack Russells ... ... are first and foremost hunting dogs. The traits and skills that make them excellent hunting dogs (i.e., digging, barking, aggressive nature, ability to follow scent) are often interpreted as bad habits that cause people to give them up. ... are bred to go underground, following scent to locate and bark at quarry until they are dug down to or the quarry bolts. If they do not have an outlet for their natural instincts, they will invent new and fun jobs for themselves, which frequently include guardian of the world and/or their possessions and family, chasing cars, hunting birds, bugs or leaves, or endlessly digging in the soil. ... are a big dog in a little body. They have the same need (or more!) for exercise as a much larger dog... and the mentality to match -- they think they are at least 150 pounds, and are fearless, often challenging other dogs three times their size. ... are often aggressive with other dogs. Same-s_x aggression and aggression towards other breeds of dogs is well doc_mented with this terrier. It is strongly recommended that no more than two Jack Russells (of opposite s_x only) ever be permitted to stay together unattended. ... are NOT a non-shedding breed! All coat types shed! Smooth coats shed the most, dropping hair continuously year round. Rough coats maintain the guard and dead coat, requiring manual shedding a few times a year. The broken coat is an intermediary coat, between the two types. ... require firm, consistent discipline. They are extremely intelligent, continue to test their limits throughout their life. More often than not, train their owners before the owner knows what has happened! This ability to train their owners can include displays of aggressive behavior. Their a__sertive nature must be understood and handled properly! ... can become very possessive of their owner or a favorite member of the family or of what they consider to be their personal property if allowed to do so to the point of showing aggressive protective behavior that must be controlled from an early age. ... are commonly known to hara__s, injure or kill other small pets, such as cats, birds, rabbits, mice, rats, etc., simply due to their strong natural hunting instinct. Raising a puppy with a cat does not guarantee the cat's life-long safety! ... remain active well into their 15-year-plus life span; their need for activity and desire to hunt continues for their entire lifetime. Untrained, unsupervised dogs rarely meet their life expectancy. ... require at least basic obedience training. The dog's life may depend on it! Even well trained dogs will be tempted to chase something interesting, or even disappear into a hole while you are not looking. Off-lead is always a dangerous situation for a Jack Russell unless in a safe environment with experienced JR owners. ... absolutely need a securely fenced yard! Jack Russells will roam due to their hunting instincts.... even if left in an unsecured for a few minutes! You can let them out every day for three years with no trouble....but one day they will disappear and may never come back. Many JR's have been killed by cars by darting into the road in pursuit of a squirrel, cat, etc. They can also dig under, climb or jump over fences; some can climb trees and any height chain link fencing. ... can be very destructive if left unattended and unemployed! Most behavioral problems are due to a lack of companionship, discipline, activity and exercise. If you've only seen perfect, well-behaved JR's, they are ones that were lucky enough to be exercised, well socialized, and trained. ... are country dogs. When made to live in a city or suburban-type environment, their needs and instincts do not change. It would be unreasonable to expect them to be anything other than what they are genetically bred to be -- a serious hunting dog. Your lifestyle must be adjusted to meet their needs; they must have jobs to perform -- an outlet for their considerable energy and intelligence. ... are NOT recommended as apartment or condo dogs. They need a great deal of exercise and outdoor activity, and are usually too loud for such high-density living. They need room to run; leash walking does not satisfy their boundless energy. Unless your schedule permits many hours at home and a lot of outdoor activity, with a safe place the terrier can run, this is not the dog for you. MANY rescues come from apartments, condos, or homes where the owners work away from the home for long periods of time. ... will NOT TOLERATE even unintended mistreatment from a child. They will not put up with typical child handling such as pulling of ears, tails, etc., or taking or "sharing" of the dog's bones, food, toys, etc. They are very a__sertive and demanding, and never still... jumping all over whoever will allow it. Jack Russells are not recommended for households with children under the age of six unless you are previously experienced with this feisty little bundle of energy. ... are NOT as they are portrayed in the movies, on TV, or other forms of media. Those dogs are professionally trained and handled, and are very obedient only for VERY short periods of time. Celebrity dogs have their needs met by the trainer, and perform their jobs accordingly. ... require a long-term commitment to obedience, activity, exercise and entertainment... their unique character, intelligence and high energy level can frustrate you, will undoubtedly entertain you, and can bring you great joy (when they're happy!) or great grief (when they're not!). If this type of relationship does not appeal to you, then consider another breed. Jack Russell Terriers are always a work in progress!"

 

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