Am I Just Parinoid

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love youx - October 10

To me, my boyfriend has been acting totaly different recently which makes me think hes cheating. although he had no messages or emails from anyone else to make me think so, its just my gut feeling! also hes at college and i stay at home so i dont know if i have to much time to think about things? i am an extremly jelouse person though, last week he went out to the pub with his male friend but i was convinced there was something else going on!! which nearly broke us up. does hormones make you do this? im soo emotional lately! and i dont know wether 2 beileve my gut feeling or its al just the hormones?? plz help!! x

 

Confused - November 13

This is tough, for sure. If you're doing your best to separate your "hormones" from your gut, and your gut still feels something, I'd say to trust your gut. It may not be that your b/f is messing around, though. It could be as simple as he's overwhelmed with the reality of baby care (which often doesn't hit until the actual birth), and he's, perhaps, running away from the situation (to some extent) by hanging out with his friends. However, it took two people to make the baby, and he should be taking on a more active role in parenting. You, too, need "time out", and he should respect that and help.

 

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