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Had a son on May 3. My hubby is a resident MD. He was working a lot but, now is on reg schedule. He does not seem to be interested in s_x too much.. He is 37 yrs and says that he does not have desire =- libedo. He said that he wished he had libido as me. Do men decrease amt of s_x as they age? Do they lose desire? Is it normal to only do IT about every 10-14 days? At some times it was 1 x per month...
What do you think? What should I do? Is this normal for men to want s_x only 1-2 times per month?
Let me know...
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hello ikhaled. could your husband's loss of libido be because/if he was in the delivery room with you? i do not have much advise on this, maybe you should ask a doctor about this? my son was born on may 4th and it was the oposite for me. i lost all s_xual desire and have just recently resumed relations with my husband who was just crazy about us starting again after a couple of days of me giving birth!
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He was in the delivery room with me... He does not say that he is grosed out about the delivery (had a C-section). Do you think that he is and is not saying? He is not into cuddling, kissing or anything close with me... I can't figure it out. What do you think?
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if the baby is your first, things take a while to get back to normal. there could be many factors including your hubby may be tired having to deal with baby and work or it could be that the baby being in the same room, the best thing would be to ask him directly :P
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I would recommend starting at the beginning again. Find someone you trust to babysit and start going out as a couple for dates. I'm sure you new roles as parents has changed you both so you need to get to know each other again. Once a week a drop my baby off at the baby sitters for a few hours. We usually try to go out to eat or to a movie, but sometimes we just hang out at the house. My husband is an avid golfer, so even though it doesn't really interest me, I have started going to the driving range with him and hit a few b___s myself. It has made a huge difference in the bedroom. If dating again doesn't work, I would suggest maybe going to couples therapy in case he is working thru some stress/anxiety/depression issues. While my husband is 32, several of my friends have husbands that are in their late 30s early 40s and they haven't slowed down a bit. They just complain the next day about aches and pains. :)
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