Could It Be His Baby Even After A Vasectomy
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Hi there! I'm a little worried and need some help. My LMP was 27 March and I had s_x with a man on the 5th or 6th of April. The problem is, he had a vasecomy about 10mths ago and I need to know if there is anyway this could be his baby? My hubby and I were trying for a baby and now we are due 31 Dec and I'm worried it's not my hubby's. Please help me I worried sick and loosing sleep over this.
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I don't know about the dates - but i have heard of people getting pregnant after the man has a vasectomy.
My DH's Dad had before DH was born - so I know it happens...
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serves you right!! you should not be cheating on your hubby especially if you are trying for a baby!! if you cannot be a good wife what kind of mother will you be then???
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I agree w/ "Shame on You." You obviously don't even love your husband so why the hell would you bring a child into an unloving home. You deserve to be losing sleep. You are a really selfish woman! God help you.
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It is not fair for us to condemn and criticize, no matter what the situation. With that said, there may be a very slim chance that the baby is not your husband's, as almost no procedure is 100% effective. Most likely, the child does belong to your husband, so do not worry and stress over what may or may not be. It is not good for you or the baby. Children are a blessing from God, and God forgives anyone who asks and believes in Him, no matter how awful the sins of the past. Please find a good church, if you don't already attend one, and consider counseling or confiding in someone who will be understanding and non-judgemental. Remember, Jesus loves you!
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 | . - November 20 |
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Wrangler.. i mucked around and the exact same thing happened to me. I am a good person and you dont need to be a bad person to cheat on your husband. These criticizing people are obviously prefect and dont understand that sometimes things happen. I have a MC one month then got preg the next month, i did not want to risk the slightest chance that it may not be my husbands and had an abortion. Now i am pregnat with my husbands child. I did not have an affair it was just a funny muck around single mistake that turned into a disaster and i paid for it big time. I think the personal guilt inside will be enough for you to deal with , without having to deal with the cristicisms of others. My heart goes out to you! As for your actual question.. i dont know.. i just wanted to somhow protect you from the rest of the horrible emails so you know you are not alone!.
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 | Nik - November 21 |
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Well this is something for the MAURY show, First you need to ask youself are you happy with your marrige?I must say there's a small chance you did when you slept with another man! And did you think a baby would make you it stronger a baby will not keep a man trust me. Its would be a shame to bring a baby into the world like this. Your really in a jam... this may cause you your marrige! you put both you, your husbands and unborn child at risk for ant STD's and most os all HIV/AIDS and for what....... think about this! Its a shame but i would have no choice but to get rid of this pregnancy and try agin when thing are right in my relationship
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Well this is something for the MAURY show, First you need to ask youself at that time were you happy with your marrige?I must say there's a big chance something was wrong when you slept with another man! And did you think a baby would make your marrige sronger? a baby will not keep a man trust meif thats the case. It would be a shame to bring a baby into the world like this, but things happen. Your really in a jam... this may cause you your marrige he will alway bring this up even if he is the father! you put both you, your husbands and unborn child at risk also for any STD's and most os all HIV/AIDS and for what....... think about this! Its a shame but i would have no choice but to get rid of my pregnancy and try agin when thing are right at home. I understant ish happen like the other lady said, but this souldn't a marrige is diff from bf and gf . I wish you the best of luck! And no matter what anyone says your the one who has to deal with this!
like the 3am wake up calls... cheer up and be blessed
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You would have had to concieve before then. About a month before (approx.). If you got pregnant on May 5 or 6 you would be due around Jan 26 or 27. I wouldn't take this as a guarantee but if you go to a due date calculator on the web and type in May 5 it comes up with the due date Jan 26. Good Luck!
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to wrangler: your conception date is 4/10/05 being right after having s_x w/ that guy. due date 1/1/06 fetal date 38 weeks 4 days. ** when did you last have s_x w/ your husband??cause if you didn't around the same time as the other guy. then chances it's not your husbands. ya know. good luck to you.
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