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So i stupidly had s_x with a friend June 3, he did not come inside of me. I got my period June 4. For the rest of the month I continued to have s_x with my ex. About 5-8 times during the month. Around the 13th he wasnt sure he pulled out fast enough.. then on the 26th definitely came in me. I am pregnant. I took 3 HPT tests ( June 29, July 2, July 7) all came up negative. Then I took another one July 15 which came up positive. I am pregnant. The man i believe to be the father ( the ex) wants a paternity test.We have not yet had an ultrasound- they arent doing until August 27.. Now i am paranoid and freaking out.. and need to figure out whos child this most likely is.
Please help. thanks.
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First off, pulling out IS NOT a form of birth control. He couldn't have "pulled out fast enough" Can you say pre ejaculation? Maybe your ex should do his homework on how that works. Second, It is literally impossible to have gotton pregnant by your friend one day before your period started. you can only get pregnant during ovulation, and ovulation occurs appr. 14days after the first day of your period. So based on the info youve given, your ex is the father without a doubt. By the way, your ex must be a real winner if he believes his form of b/c is fool proof.
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Well maybe I should have also explained to you that i was on the pill. But on antibiotics and it slipped my mind that the pill was weakened.
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it still couldn't have been your friend you slept with 1 day before your period started. The pill isn't 100% effective, antibiotics or not. If you dont want to become pregnant use a condom and b/c or abstinance.
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I am sooo sorry, my last remark sounded dooo catty. What i meant was, if you TRUELY don't want to become pregnant, birth control alone is not enough---because it is not 100% effective. you will need to use double the protection to ensure you are 100% covered. :) sorry i came off like such a B*%#H.
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I am not upset about any comments you have made. i am grateful that you made comments, as I have been going insane over here for a few days. Luckily my gyno took pity on me and arranged for an ultrasound to be done Thursday so that i can find out the gestational age so that I can stop worrying which i know is terrible for the baby.
Thank you for your comments..
and I am perfectly happy having a child with my ex. He is a wonderful person and will make an excellent father.. i just wanted to make sure that I was right in a__suming the baby is his...
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pulling out fast is not an option! i fell pragnant during fore play!!!
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ya sweetie, you can't get pregnant the day before your period! sorry he is asking for a paternity test! it's obvious he is the dad. i hope he does what he is suppose to when taking care of this child. good luck to you!
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Hello all, back from my ultrasound to report that i am 7 weeks 1 day pregnant, not the 8 weeks 3 days previously thought. if i am calculating correctly, that means i concieved around June 26? Correct???
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Actually add another week ontop of that and thats the conception date so June 19th
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