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Hello, I am new to this but I need to talk about this. There are times, when I am sad and think about the baby that I could have had. I miscarried on July 12th, 2010 and bled for a week. I saw the fetus in the toilet on the third day of bleeding. At first when it happened, I was ok with it. I told everybody,everything happens for a reason. Be it a good or bad reason.
But then I watch shows like..I didn't know I was pregnant...and I get angry. Or I read about my cousins pregnancy or friend's pregnancies, and I get sad again.
I do not want to be sad. There are so many females out there who do not deserve to have children and they have them. And when I want one, this happens.
Why me? How long does this grief last?
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Hello I know exactly how you feel as I think about the baby I could have had all the time, it breaks my heart everytime I walk past a family as I want one so bad.Its so painful as I only started to miscarry Saturday morning. At first I was really scared, but then I just lost the will to speak, both me and my partner have been sitting silently in tears for the past few hours as we have no idea what to say to each other. I dont want to be sad anymore as Im tired and sick to death of feeling all this guilt. Guilt because I know I have let my partner down, but I also know it couldnt have been prevented, everything happens for a reason.
I feel exactly the same as you with the anger and the sadness, but I dont think the grief will ever fully go until we both can realise that it wasnt our faults and that we have to just pick ourselves up and try again, look to the future with a positive outlook and hopefully our dreams of a family will come true. I wish you all the luck in the world and just remember that it was not your fault and to stay positive for the future for not only yourself, but also your partner.xx
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I know how you feel. I am sorry for your loss. How far along were you? I am going to go see my dr. this week just to make sure everything is ok. You should do the same, just to be safe. If you want to talk more about the miscarriage, I am here for you.
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