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My heart goes out to you. My husband and I tried to have a child 2 and a half years ago, and I miscarried at 6 weeks. We tried again this past April and I miscarried May 25. My symptoms continued and I never got a period until yesterday, but it was extremely painful and today much to my grief, I expelled a fetus still in it's sac followed by placenta and alot of blood. (sorry to be graphic)I believe I had twins and I lost my little survivor. It's hard, and I'm going to the doctor tomorrow. I wish the best for you and hope that you can finally achieve the blessing of a child.

thank you. my family is trying to be supportive and all but its hard for anyone to understand when they haven't been there before. it's just heartbreaking. I hope your dr. appt goes well. I'm still waiting lab results to "confirm" which just means another day of tears and greiving.

My husband and I are currently staying with my in-laws because he got laid off a few weeks ago and it's hard for them to understand what I'm going through. It was so aggravating when my grandmother inlaw (who for some reason doesn't care for me because she didn't want her grandson to get married, she's crazy btw) says "You guys didn't need a kid anyway. Just go get on the pill." Nevermind the fact that I'm in emotional shock over losing 2 babies within a few weeks time and their grave was a toilet. I wish you the best sweety, and it's going to be hard, but hopefully you get another chance to successfully have a baby . Take care, and I'll be around if you need to talk.

I am so sorry for you both. I am miscarrying at 6 weeks 3 days. My friend told me today that her doctor told her after her MC years ago that often when you miscarry at this stage it is because there was a chromosomal defect and our bodies way of taking care of things. I personally think I would almost rather not have gotten pregnant in the first place. I am so sorry that your in laws are being so cruel. You should really find someone that you can talk to keep yourself from being depressed. Surround yourself with people who LOVE you! (easy for me to say, I have only told my husband and 1 friend.)

Sorry to hear about your loss :( We are finally moving on from ours (m/c on July 4th...were due on Feb 14th...2 holidays scarred forever). Yes, I heard the same thing about the chromosomal defects. But if you believe in God, all I can say is, why would He want us to be pregnant in the first place, just to end in heart ache? It's such a sad thing, and something that is not talked about. I mean, when you got pregnant, did anyone tell you "Oh,by the way, did you know that you have a 25% chance of m/c?" Of course not. It makes it easier to find people who do know what you're going through, because nobody understands it. I've gotten a lot of "oh it is probably for the better" and "at least now you know you CAN get pregnant" Ummm my baby just died, do you think that is making me feel better? *sigh*

i so hear you... its wierd to hear someone else say that about there grave was a toilet that everytime is one of the things i just cant stand. I hate it my little ones so small still just washed away Bigs hugs to you and people can be so hurtful and not even know it and its because they dont know what to say. yeah and i HATE the "for the best" one all my babies i have lost by 5 1/2 weeks. God blessed when with a son after i had given up and given it to him i was on birth control for 6 months (i have endo too) and stopped taking it. When i first came off them i skipped a period, then had a period and then was pregnant and he stuck!! i dont know what or why but we have tried again and lost another one now.

it brakes my heart to think that i flushed my baby down the potty like a bug i even sit n the bathroom n pray that god forgives me for flushing y does it have to hurt so much n i still feel like im pregnant n i just want to make it all go away