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Hi everyone, Im new to the thread. I have a 3 year old daughter and in Feb 2011 I had a miscarriage at 5 weeks. We again conceived this year and were expecting a baby in Feb 2012. I went to the doctor today for a routine checkup and ultrasound and was told that my baby had pa__sed away a few weeks ago and had to have an emergency D&C today at 14 weeks. Im at the point where I desperately want another child but I dont know if I can go through this again. I now have to explain to my 3 year old why her sibling wont come home with us. This is such a horrible experience. I'm worried I will never have my second child. I'm sorry for all the other losses out there and I just wanted to say I know how you feel and what you are going through.

Hi ladies. Im new to this thread...im 23 yrs old. And im blessed with my 6 yr old son jayden. I had 3 mc ..5/26/10 (14 weeks baby size 12 weeks) i had to have a d&c...11/18/10 (8 weeks baby size 6weeks) for this mc i took misoprostol it was the most horrible pain ever...physical and emmotional and on 08/17/11 i went for my 11 weeks check up. No heartbeat. :( baby was the size of ten weeks. On 8/21 i took misoprostol it didnt work. Unfortunately i had to have a d&c on 8/26 now im on best rest... Ready to find some answers as to why i keep losing my babies. I know for sure that we are going to wait... At least a yr before we ttc again. We want to get tests done but we dont knkw how much its all going to cost :( ....i see u ladies were blessed w a baby after multiple mc and i hope im just as lucky as u guys. :)

Hi everyone, I too have suffered three miscarriages in a row in the last twelve months. It is so hard to stay positive and keep the courage to try again. I have been referred to the recurrent miscarriage clinic for testing. It does help to hear success stories of women having a healthy pregnancy and having children after recurrent loses. My family keep telling me not to stress when I get pregnant but it is so difficult as I anticipate it going wrong as I have never known any different. I have never got beyond six weeks! Anyone got any up to date advice to give?

To Jofenby- I am 24 yrs old and have experienced 2 miscarriages.. The easiest way to cope and to find the strength to keep trying is in the cause. I was lucky enough to find out the 2nd time what the cause of mine were. It is still discouraging that it happened and ive always wanted to be a mother.. But knowing how to prevent having a miscarriage again helps. Its just getting pregnant again that seems to be the problem.. I sm rh negative which means that I have a strand of antibodies in my blood that if the baby does not have, my body will attack it as foreign. As a result, I have to get RhoGam shots to prevent miscarriage. Now that I know that, I can be proactive in my next pregnancy. Continuing to try is extremely difficult, and can only be done by the continued support of my close friends and family. It took me a long time to recover emotionally from my last miscarriage, which occured at 12 wks. I work in a retail store and could not even walk by the infant dept without crying. It will be 2 yrs this month since that day, and I have now missed 2 periods, have some symptoms that are similar to both of my previous pregnancies, but have had negative test results. The hardest part at this point is not getting my hopes up. My husband is so supportive and tries to cheer me up, but the waiting game is unbearable. I leave it in Gods hands, knowing that the timing might not be right for us to have a child. The only advice that I can give is the advice im giving myself at this point. Keep your head up and know that when it is meant to happen, it will, and that maybe those challenges were to strengthen my relationships..

Im not sure if you ended up being success in your try for a baby after 3 miscarriages. I suffered 3 miscariages, 13 weeks, 6 weeks and 9 weeks. I then went on to get pregnant and have a health baby girl after giving my body a few months rest. I was also prescribed progesterone capsules, which I was told probably didnt work as they are apparently scientifically proven not to work. I wish you all the best. I never took a second for granted with my baby girl when she finally arrived :-)

Hi dear. I just had tears in my eyes as I read that you told your daughter that baby won't come home. I can feel the loss and pain which you are going through. Its really a hard time for you and your family. I request you to please not lose the hope. You can have your second baby safely. There are many methods by which you can have baby and Surrogacy is one of the best from them. Surrogacy is a blessing for those couples who are infertile or can't conceive a baby. I suggest you to go for surrogacy as it will help you a lot in this time of need. All my best wishes are with you my dear. Keep your chin up and stay calm. Best of Luck!

I was trying to conceive from last 10 years but had no luck. I went to best clinics for checkup but the doctors can't find why i was unable to conceive. Firstly i had few cycles of IVF but i failed at IVF. Than i went for IUI and also failed at IUI. So a friend of mine told me about surrogacy. Now i am going for surrogacy. If you people have some suggestions for my plan please let me know.

Hey dear. Hope you do good. I feel really sorry to her about your loss. I have been in the same boat. I can relate to your pain very well. I know how hard it is to lose a child. Dear, you must stay strong. Remember, there is always a rainbow after the rain. I had miscarriages twice. I was then introduced to IVF. My first attempt failed. It looked as if my world had shattered. I got hollow from inside, My dream of becoming a mother seemed be a thousand miles away. Then, I came to know about surrogacy. It was a new ray of hope for me. Now, I am a blessed motther. I suggest you to stay positive. MY best wishes are with you. :)

Hey. I am so sorry for you. It must have been a painful period for you. But you have to accept it. I am sorry but you have to move on. It is not easy to lose an unborn baby. As a baby is part of a woman body. I know the pain. I miscarried my baby 3 times. It was a painful time but I didn't lose hope. This miscarriage disaster left me infertile. I was broken but then I made my mind to move on. In the end, I decided to go for surrogacy. I have a baby now. I have no more worries in my life. I am so happy that I made a decision n time.

Hello. I am so sad for you. I know that you are suffering from a hard time. Yet, you need to acknowledge it. I am sad however you need to proceed onward. It is difficult to lose an unborn child. I know the agony. I have faced infertility for 10 years. IVF and IUI didnt work. I was broken yet then I made my brain to proceed onward. At last, I chose to go for surrogacy. I have an infant now. I have no more stresses throughout my life. I am happy to the point that I settled on a choice on time.

I too have suffered three miscarriages in a row in the last twelve months. It is so hard to stay positive and keep the courage to try again. I have been referred to the recurrent miscarriage clinic for testing. It does help to hear success stories of women having a healthy pregnancy and having children after recurrent loses. My family keep telling me not to stress when I get pregnant but it is so difficult as I anticipate it going wrong as I have never known any different. I have never got beyond six weeks! Anyone got any up to date advice to give?

Hello ladies! Miscarriage is common nowadays. I had miscarriage thrice. It was very difficult to pass through this stage of life. It was very devastating. Now I am 4 months pregnant. I am hoping for the best. Pray for me. I wish good luck for all.

hey there, I am really sorry about your MC. I can understand the pain what you are going through. there is nothing much painful in this world except this. everyone wants to have his/her own family. it is natural feeling to every person. but you should not lose heart. there are many solutions to it. just ask your DH and consult to a good fertility clinic. to me, it will be really fruitful to you. medical science has made much progress in this regard. just don't give up your hope. there are many well-known processes to start a family. I wish you very good luck for your future.

Hi, it’s very sad to hear from you. It was the tough time of your life. Life must go on. You should go for surrogacy. A friend of mine visited clinics in London. She got the best treatment there. Now she is happy with her two children through surrogate mother. Best of luck my dear friend.

Hello. I hope you are doing fine. I am really woe to listen to your story. I know you must be devastated to lose your baby. It must be a tough time for you. You need to chin up. Don't lose hope. I can feel your pain very well. I have been in the same situation. Losing my twins was one of the most hard tasks of my life. I often felt like quitting from life. I wanted to enjoy the parenthood so bad. My husband was shattered too. Then, we went for surrogacy. It has made our life happier. I am now blessed to have  a baby boy. I hope things go smooth for you. Senging baby dust to your doorsteps. All the very best to you.

Hey. Sorry to hear about your Miscarriage. Miscarriages are so hard to deal with. But don't worry you have to face it bravely. Many people cannot conceive naturally so they adopt some unnatural ways. I also faced a lot of troubles while TTC. I faced Infertility due to Cervix incompetence disease, which left me Infertile. I couldn't conceive naturally so I adopted Surrogacy as my unnatural option. Surrogacy is the best method to have your own biological baby. I went to the Clonic in Europe for Surrogacy. That's the best clinic. They provided us a healthy and sound surrogate. Today I am a blessed mother. I advise you should go for Surrogacy. I hope things will go right in your way too. Stay blessed.