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Hello, I'm new to this site. I came across it after I started looking around for reasons why I miscarried. I have a few questions and things that have just been laying heavy on me that I just cant seem to shake. I am 22 years old and had just found out that I was pregnant in October. At first I was shocked and scared but then I realized I was going to be a mom. My boyfriend was very supportive after he found out. Actually he became very excited. At the time I was carrying he would talk to the baby and rub and kiss my tummy. During Thanksgiving week on Monday I started to noticed some brown blood when I went to the bathroom. I didn't think anything of it till the next day I started to bleed. My mom told me not to worry that I would be fine that she had periods when she had her three kids but then the bleeding got worse. On Thanksgiving day I started to bleed really heavy and had a few cramps I was also passing small clots. Then on Saturday I passed both my babies not even 3 minutes apart. I didn't think that I had lost them at first so I was admitted to the ER. They took my blood, weight and urine along with a pelvic exam...I was told that my numbers had dropped for 735 to 711 and my cervix was closed. I then went home and waited till Monday to see my regular doctor. I then had another exam and again I was told my cervix was closed and more blood was drawn. After that visit I was rushed to the OB office and did more tests there. They decided to do a sonogram on me...witch was completely devastating. I did pass both my babies that Saturday and I was heart broken. To see that I was empty on the screen just tore my heart out even more. They told me I had passed everything and there was nothing left. I wanted so much to be a mom. After that heartbreaking moment I was told that I need an injection for being RH- and was told not to have s_x until my bleeding had stopped. I was about 7 weeks when I lost our babies. The whole week really tore me and my boyfriend apart and we were going to do what ever we could to support these babies and just to see the light in his face go out knowing that we had lost them was just hard to watch. Not only did my boyfriend had to face losing his babies he is also facing some financial problems were he is currently living. Everything feels like such a mess. We wanted this so bad. I have this empty place in my heart that I just cant fill. Anyway, I do have a few questions. I was wondering when I would be able to get pregnant again? If I should wait two weeks? I know that doctor said to wait but that night we got home we had unprotected s_x. I think that experiencing this my boyfriend wants to try again. I am still lightly bleeding off and on but is there any way that I can become pregnant again soon? I am very worried though as since this was my first pregnancy and I am unsure of everything. Ive read that you can become pregnant right after while still bleeding and some say you cant. If anyone can shed some light on this for me that would be very helpful as I am new to this. Thank you for taking your time into reading this.