Perl Tryingx3 And Cissy 07 27 07
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Hi ladies : ) Tonight, I tested for ov again and still nothing. PERL - What a coincidence, we must think on the same "wave lenght". I'm not sure if it was the cushion that helped but I did get pg last time : ) TRYINGx3 - Thanks for the info, I have no idea that the "little swimmers" would pool when elevated too high. I think, I'll try both methods on alternate days : ) CISSY - Any luck with ov yet? GIRLS - Having read lolomoops' thread brought back memories for me and I'm feeling heart broken all over again. It's must be a tough time that she's going through right now, I've been her shoes ... it's was frightening and devastating to see "the yolk sac" being passed out .. which is suppose to develop into a beautiful baby. Ladies .. you're able to login into her thread, just in case she didn't notice my post to her ... please tell her I send my regards and she's not alone, thanks again. Back to the happy stuffs, Perl ... Tryingx3, have the both of you started shopping for baby stuffs yet ... it's so exciting and fun isn't it : ) In fact, I already have a baby pram in mind from last pregnancy but didn't get a chance to buy it ... it's a 3 wheeler, kind of like a "joggers' pram". Dh & I thought if we get one those we'll be jogging with the baby by the beach ... kind of cool huhhh : ) Who says we are too old to have babies at our age : ) Got to go to bed now ...it's almost 2 in the morning for me. Have a nice day : )
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Sann, I know what you mean--the devastation of pa__sing/seeing the sac is something that can never be forgotten. I had to replace that visual image with the image of my baby as an angel hovering over me to find any comfort and be able to move forward.****Sorry to hear about the ov test. I'm curious, what is the traditional chinese medicine that you are using? Is it certain type of herbs or pills or what is it?****About shopping, I put in the order for nursery furniture. I had an emotional block because for some reason I wasn't ready to buy anything yet. I was having bad thoughts "what if I miscarry again" or since we're going on a vacation soon "what if something happens during our vacation?" I know these are horrible stupid thoughts but I struggled a bit with them for a day or two until my husband told me to "stop it!" and start thinking more positively. I remember I had to do that before: I had to tell myself I was going to conceive again after miscarrying, then after that that all my tests would be fine and baby will be healthy. I"m thinking positively now again, nothing bad is going to happen, I'm carrying a healthy baby to full term and I'm doing everything in my power to make sure it happens (and relying on God too). I think our minds are powerful tools and as hard as it is sometimes we have to keep thinking positively! I know you arlready do this Sann but please don't ever stop being positive. Anyway, dh was pretty adamant--the nursery furniture had to be ordered so it will be here on time. So I ordered it and bought the bedding but that's about it. I won some free stuff at the baby store but I figure there is still time to buy the rest.** How nice that you live by the beach! I used to live by a gorgeous beach and I miss it so much, it's so soothing and romantic. I have no beach now, just a lake and some rivers nearby but it's just not the same as my beautiful Pacific ocean. : ( Take care and I hope you are enjoying your beach even before you get your joggers pram.
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Perl - I struggled with some negative thoughts until I hit 3rd trimester...when I thought she would survive outside the womb...kind of went away as I could feel her moving and feel "parts"! :-) Sann, we so much want this for you too. After my 1st m/c I was so DEVASTATED (and we had gotten pg immediately 1st)....that when we didn't get pg the 2nd time immediately I started really focusing and stressing...the month we became pg, I honestly thought it would not be that month and it was! So many people say, don't "try" and it will happen....I think there is a lot to that, however, never really figured out how you "try" and not "try"!
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