May June And Some TTCers Part 22

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Tracy88 - March 11

Oh, Val, meant to address your question about Unisom. The ingredient in Unisom is not recommended for those with RLS because it actually exacerbates the problem, just like Benadryl does. The doc prescribed me a different type of antihistimine that they have been using for years for various purposes, but the day after I take it, I have bad RLS, so it's a catch 22. It doesn't help alleviate the RLS, I do sleep better though, BUT the next day the RLS is twice as bad. HUH???? This sucks. I just keep setting incremental goals for myself so making it though this will be easier. Like, right now my goal is to stay on bed rest and follow orders until my shower which is March 31st. Three more weeks. At that point I will be a day shy of 33 weeks and the baby is measuring ahead, so I will consider myself out of the danger zone and ready to go at any time. I know that sounds crazy, but I have to think that way even if she hangs in there for the full term.

 

Val - March 11

TRACY, oh, that makes sense about the unisom now... Your goal plan sounds like a good idea, especially if it's helping you get through your days and nights. Any word on the house-hunt? Did you make another offer on the first house? LB, sorry about all the pain you are having. Are you doing any better today? PUNKIN, your post cracked me up. There are some songs that I haven't been able to listen to - I just turn into a weepy mess! Also, I'm really picky about what movies we see - I mostly only watch comedies these days. (Have any of you seen the British sitcom Coupling? We finally rented the 4th season dvd - it is so funny!) Hope everyone else is doing well...

 

Tracy88 - March 11

Nights are the worst. I dread night time like you wouldn't believe. It's an actual psychological problem for me right now! Night starts to come and I get angry and afraid. No word on the house front right now. It's frustrating because we were game to just rent a house until his parents encouraged us to buy with their help, and now we are waiting for things to happen for them, so they can help and we can get things moving on our end. We put in the offer when we did because his parents were about to close on their Vermont home, but then the buyers stopped the deal, contingent upon some some c___p, in a ploy to try to reduce the price of the house. So we basically had to just withdraw our offer until they figure out what is going to happen with the Vermont home. Long, complicated story.....but we just have to sit and wait because they are looking at putting 100,000 down on a home for us.....wouldn't you wait?? Meanwhile my crib is sitting in a box and I have no nursery to paint. I have an empty room upstairs, but why set up the crib when in a few months it just has to be taken apart? Savannah will be in a ba__sinet for a few months, so the only reason I feel rushed is because I wanted to be settled before she was born. That really doesn't look like it's going to happen. Did I confuse you with all the gory details? I'm confused so........... I just have TV shows that make me cry. I cry daily when I watch a baby story and weekly when I watch Extreme Makeover Home Edition. Those are the two worst tearjerkers. I haven't seen Coupling. Maybe I should check that out. I have had the worst cold all week and today it finally seems to be getting better. I still have the cough of a mine worker with Balck Lung, but I'm healing!!!

 

Lovedblessings - March 11

Tracy, so glad your cervix is responding to bed rest.. you sound much more rested! How did you doctor's appointment go? Good news that your blood sugar is under control, I can imagine your diet would be pretty bland. When I was having gallbladder issues the doctor gave me a low fat diet to follow. Basically nothing with taste! On the up side I only had twelve pounds to lose after my son was born. My doctor may induce me at 37 weeks if the pain is still unbearable. Who knew a scar could cause so much grief. Braxcton hicks are really strong today, here's hoping labour is not to far off. Punkin01 there are many songs that make me cry also. there are several songs from my Dad's funeral I have heard on the radio. One time I was driving and started to cry so hard I had to pull over. Val, the pain is still the same, at the moment I try to breathe through most of it but I find the is no way I can make it through the whole day with no pain killers. How are you feeling? Ladires wait until you hold your baby in your arms for the first time. If you thought your tears are bad now the flood gates will open. What an amazing experience At this point I am so excited knowing that my new son will be in my arms weeks from today.

 

punkin01 - March 11

hey all i am so happy today!!!! MIL is being nice to us (some of you may remember me venting about how rude she is/was to me and hubby and costing us money in refrence to the insurance claims and making our insurance premimums go up and lying saying she didnt file any claims and that she received no money but all was a lie she received the money and forged DH name to cash them--anyway) she came over to the house yesterday and said that she wanted to be a mother to DH and a MIL to me and a grandma to DD and soon to be DS so she wanted to take us to dinner last night and shopping ...so we were like OK but leary.......well she said she was sorry and blah blah blah and then took us and bought a carseat for DS that goes from 5 to 100 lbs (we seen that consumer rpt on the carriers that have the base that is seatbelted into the veh and the carrier snaps onto it .and in their test crash the carrier will come off the base and send the carrier flying off .......well it is the one DD used and we had put up for DS so we are not going to use it now) and she bought us a pack N play with the ba__sinett (dd just had ba__sinet she never had a play pen and i sold the ba__sinet because she used it for 2 1/2 weeks then she would scream when she was put in it after that so i got rid of it) but this one is bigger and different so maybe he will stay in it longer and plus its a play pen too......then she bought some clothes for him ...sleepers and onsies and some clothes and an easter dress for DD and sandals.......and then she took me and got some bras and panties (i was busting out of mine) and then DH some undies (he really didnt need them but she just kept on that she got me some and she wanted to get him some too....so he picked out the boxer/breif kind and I LOVE THEM ...they look so good on him) (and this is probably TMI but i felt like BM5....... last night and this morning.....that was unusual for us........but like i said those boxer/briefs looked good!!!!!!!) then she started picking out things i need for my bag to take to the hospital like a summer robe (all i have is 2 winter ones one short and one long)....she bought me some gowns but i would rather mess up the hospitals...if you know what i mean there.....some new slippers/house shoes i have some but she wanted me to have some new ones to match the robe.........all in all i know she spent over 400 bucks on us ...then we just mentioned that when we were done we needed to go to the grocery store and pick up a few items and she pulls out 200 dollars and hands it to DH and says buy yall some groceries and we kept trying to tell her we had money and to stop but she wouldn't hear of it and ended up sneaking the money in my purse and when we stopped to pick up our milk and few items i pulled my wallet out and and 2 $100 dollar bills hit the floor!!!!!!! we are not hurting for money we didnt ask for this so i dont understand it at all after all she has done to us and the insurance is just the big thing there have been may small incidents that add up...youknow??? it is just scary...is she doing this to buy our love??? out of guilt??? i feel almost bad for her buying stuff for our baby ....we had plans to buy those things and a few more but DH was like let her she owes us .....and i agree she does because of the insurance thing we have to be with a high risk company and pay 3times what we was paying!!!!!!! anyway.........tracy i was reading last night after i got home in american baby mag. that one cause of RLS was low iron has your DR checked you for that or are you already on iron tablets??? just cant remember if you have said ........loved you know i have heard several people say they have alot of pain from their incision site but i have never had any problems with mine ....it is still numb across most of it.....is it the pressure of the baby? or because they were so close together (the pregnancies)?? what will be the age difference between your 2 LO's?? my 2 will be 19 mos apart (well close enough DD will be 19 mos on the 5 th of june and my c is planned for may 30) did i tell yall that my 16 y/o DS is mad that his baby bro will not be sharing his b'day with him??? he wants my Dr to move the C ahead 3 days to may 27 which will be his 17th b-day....i thought it was sweet.......val no i have not watched that show....i will have to check it out though....i remember when i was preggo with my first DS there was a dog food commercial where the little boy gets a puppy and then it shows the 2 of them growing up together and then the old dog was still around when the boy leaves home for college....that one tore me up everytime!!!!! and the movie "shes having a baby "with kevin bacon i would ball ........speaking of puppy we got baby DS the cutest shirt last nite that says "will trade sister for a new puppy" the smallest they had was a 12 month but i had to have it ...it is sooooo cute ...well cant wait to hear from our MIA and see how they are doing.....yall take care and i will check in later bye

 

punkin01 - March 11

after proofreading my post ....no she didnt file anymore claims on the insurance she just got part of her settlement for a BAD wreck she was in over a year ago.....so this is legit......

 

Hopeful and excited - March 12

Dear all! I'm still busy busy busy and today is DH's birthday so I don't have much time to post. My mum's visit also really exhausted me and I've had to work a bit more than usual over the last few weeks (should all settle down after St.Patrick's Day!!) so I'm pretty tired. Well, I managed to write all the thank you letters but I'm afraid I cheated a little and typed them. TTC#3 - I couldn't bare the thought of getting hand cramps!!! LOL!! I hope people won't be offended. I made sure that each letter was different so it's not like they're not personal. Do you think that's OK? Also, yesterday I spent all day "building" (from a pack - I'm not THAT handy at woodwork!! LOL!!) the crib and a chest of drawers/changing table. They look so fantastic and then DH came home and helped me unpack all the gifts and clothes we've been given so the spare room has truly been "Beaned"!!! LOL! It looks lovely though as a lot of the stuff is homemade and so it has just the sort of atmosphere that I love. Anyway, after all that I was aching all over with exhaustion (as if I'd climbed one of our nearby mountains!) so got straight in the bath and ordered take-away! Yum Yum! Today I feel a little more energetic which is great as the weather is so beautiful and DH and I have plans to enjoy every minute of his birthday! ************ Punkin - so glad you had a great day with MIL. What a relief. That surely stopped the tears for a while! I hope so anyway! Lovedblessings - I'm so sorry that you're still in pain. I just hope that labour will start naturally for you soon rather than you having to be induced. Much luck to you. Tracy - sorry to hear about the cold. Hope you're getting better by the minute. How frustrating about the house!!!! I know exactly how you feel (we're going through a similar thing - people letting us down so we can't move forward with our house plans) and I know what you mean about wanting to be ready for when your baby arrives. However, keep in mind that she will only care that you love her and I'm sure that will shine above everything else. You will get the nursery you dreamed of and it will be in a beautiful new home - wonderful!! I'm so glad to hear that the bedrest is working - what did your doc say about the discharge? Mine seems to have eased up again so I'm blaming all the stress of showers, shopping and entertaining over the last few weeks. Val - re. the whole diaper thing. I think I'm going to go for prefolds and some "back up" all-in-ones too but I may not start until the baby is in "Size 2" so that I don't spend unnecessary money on the Size 1s - the reason being that I've got a suspicion that our Bean won't take long to grow into the next size!!! ******** Anyhow, that's all from me. Hope everyone else is doing well. Col, lovemy3, BM5, Sann and all those who've posted here before (sorry if I forget - Tylersmommy: where are you?) Big Hugs to all of you. Must go and make a lovely birthday breakfast now!! XOXOXOXOX

 

Lovedblessings - March 12

Tracy and everyone really.. Just read this article on controling your sweet tooth. THought it might help with your GD. Take control of your not-so-sweet habit. Got sugar on the mind? Chances are you're craving the chewy, chocolatey sweets you devoured during the holidays. According to Sofia Segounis, a nutritionist at Truestar Health, a health and wellness clinic in Toronto, people develop sugar cravings because of an imbalance of the insulin hormone. The more sugar you eat, the more insulin your body secretes in order to convert the sugar in your body into energy -- insulin controls blood sugar levels. After eating your favourite sweets you experience an energy surge but then your blood sugar level drops, making you crave more sugar. You crave sugar because your body gets accustomed to having high blood sugar levels. But too much sugar can make you feel moody and tired and it can weaken your immune system. Moodiness stems from the insulin imbalance and fatigue can settle in because the quick energy surge comes all at once. Sugar and refined carbohydrates are converted into blood sugar very fast and therefore you don't get a steady flow of energy -- that's why the surge's byproduct is often an energy slump. Excess sugar can weaken your immunity by suppressing the immune system's macrophage cells, which act as an important defense shield by removing unwanted substances from your blood such as bacteria and viruses. So move over plum pudding, gingerbread, and chocolate snowb___s. If you want to jump off the sugar bandwagon, read these 10 tips to banish your sweet cravings. 1. Aim for hormonal balance Sugar and high-refined carbohydrates like white rice, white pasta, and white flour are quickly converted into blood sugar and cause insulin levels to rise. Segounis says your diet should consist of a balance of proteins, carbohydrates and fats at every meal. The proteins and fat slow the absorption of carbohydrates into your bloodstream, giving you a constant supply of energy over a longer period of time and keeping you feeling full longer. 2. Eat small frequent meals throughout the day Eating regularly gives you energy throughout the day and regulates your blood sugar levels because sugar trickles into your bloodstream gradually as opposed to spiking quickly after eating sweets. Also, choose foods that are high in fibre. The higher the fibre content, the slower the sugar enters your bloodstream. Whole-wheat pasta, kamut pasta, brown rice, whole grain breads, and multigrain breads are all high in fibre. Other good sources, and great snacks, include vegetables, cheese and high-fibre crackers, and flaxseed, which you can sprinkle on yogurt or cottage cheese. 3. Satisfy your sweet tooth with a quick fix Raid the fruit tray instead of the cookie jar. Pure fruit juice and fruit and nut bars will also give you a hint of sweet without the excess sugar. 4. Take vitamin supplements Chewable vitamin C tablets help control sugar cravings. Natural vitamin C is found in citrus and kiwi fruit. Chromium helps the body maintain blood sugar levels and is found naturally in brewer's yeast, grains and cereals. Magnesium also helps to regulate blood sugar levels and is found in nuts, grains, beans, dark green vegetables, fish, and meat. 5. Drink herbal teas Fruity herbal teas like orange peach, strawberry, raspberry, and cranberry taste sweet without adding sugar. Green and white teas may not taste as sweet, but they have the added benefit of antioxidants. 6. Read labels There are hidden sugars in foods that you may not be aware of. Peanut b___ter has sugar in it, for example. Anything that says fructose (a sugar found in honey), glucose (found in most carbohydrate foods), and sucrose (common table sugar) means it contains sugar. Beware of foods that are labelled "fat free." Sugar is sometimes used to replace the flavour that is lost when the fat is removed. Conversely "sugar free" on the label means there may be added fat. 7. Chose natural sweeteners Natural alternatives to refined sugars are pure maple syrup, barley malt, rice syrup and sucanat (granulated sugar cane juice). These are "healthier" forms of sugar, with more nutrients than regular refined sugar. The natural sweeteners are not released into your bloodstream as quickly as refined sugar, therefore lessening the likelihood of spiking your blood sugar levels. 8. Drink plenty of water Making sure you're well hydrated will curb the urge to eat something whether it's sugar or not. So drink water to alleviate your tendency to choose a sweet snack. 9. Avoid temptation Use restraint at the grocery store. Remember that if sweets are not in your house, you are less likely to eat them. 10. Don't subst_tute diet items for the regular sugar version Diet pop may not be a better alternative to regular pop just because it has less sugar in it. It often contains potentially toxic sweeteners like aspartame. Consumption of more than approximately 40 mg of aspartame per kilogram of a person's body weight is considered toxic, says Segounis. She adds that while most people aren't ingesting that much aspartame, why bother risking your health? Instead of artificial sweeteners, Segounis suggests opting for the sugar derivative sucralose (chlorinated sugar). A healthy dose of willpower is needed in combination with these 10 tips, warns Segounis, especially during the first week when you will still experience sugar cravings. After you get over this period of sugar withdrawal your sugar cravings will be reduced, you‚ll have more energy and be healthier overall

 

babymakes5 - March 12

Hi everyone, sorry about MIA for awhile. Now that I have more responsibility at work, it's getting harder and harder for me to go online-sniff, sniff. Miss you guys...but it's good to catch up on posts. My internet at home is still very very slow, so it's too frustrating to go online at home. Hopeful-how exciting you got so much stuff!!! Sounds like fun unpacking everything and getting it all set up. Wish your dh a happy b-day from the thread!! Punkin-so glad to hear about MIL, I sure hope it was an act of grace and not a cover up for something else bad. She does owe you guys, so enjoy all your new stuff! Loved-that stinks about the pain, I sure hope you are on your way soon to holding your little guy. Sounds like you're more than ready. It would be nice to go on your own instead of being induced. I'll have my fingers crossed. Tracy, I'm glad your cervix is better and that your GD can be controlled with your diet. Keep up the good work! Good luck on the house, I hope it works out before your little baby girl comes. Val sounds like you're doing well. I am now off the antibiotics and got retested at my appt on Wed, didn't hear back, so I'm a__suming it's all cleared up, but I think I'll keep drinking the cranberry juice anyways. With being pregnant and our b-ding schedule, chances seem to pretty high of more UTI's. I think that's the first time I've had one for years and years. Usually I can ward them off with lots of fluids. Hopefully it'll stay away. My and dh went out this weekend to see a band in a bar with some friends. We haven't been out for so long I've been feeling bad for dh so I decided to give it a go. I made it until about midnight, but the next day I was exhausted! I slept all day long on and off, getting up to eat and that's about it. It was a lot of fun, but I don't think I'll be doing it again any time soon! I'd just as soon hibernate for the next couple of months. I know I'm behind everyone else here with a EDD of Jun 19th, but I can't seem to get into a nesting stage. It's starting to bother me some. I feel like I should be getting prepared and I virtually have nothing yet for the baby except clothes. It just seems so overwhelming. Maybe it'll come soon...sorry if I missed anyone, but I'd better get back to work. Hugs to everyone!

 

TTC#3@35 - March 12

LovedB-yes I do temp my charting site is fertilityfriend.com/home/18d14a. Sorry about your pain1 Tracy - Geez Id love to have someone put 100,000 down for me on a house. Then I wouldnt have to do what Im doing now..choosin from this shack to that shack. But what an ordeal to wait for one thing to sell before you can proceed & especially with you & your situation & your baby coming soon. Punkin - good for you.. i hope she continues to be nice.. & you go girl on the lovin!! All it takes is underwear huh!?! & how nice of you ds to say he WANTED to have his brother on his bday! Sweet. H&E - happy bday to your DH!! Me - im on my 2ww.. im 4dpo! give me lots of baby dust

 

TTC#3@35 - March 12

Where is everyone? Keeping those babies healthy & happy i guess>>

 

Tracy88 - March 12

TTC....I am on the couch incubating this baby like a hen on her eggs. BM5....glad to hear that screamin UTI is under control. I don't know how you are still having s_x! My doc has had to do internals lately and d__n!!!! they hurt!!!!

 

babymakes5 - March 12

Tracy, keep incubating girl! She'll be nice and ripe before you know it-lol. Believe me, b-ding schedule has subsided a great deal-down to probably 4-5 x week (instead x day). I was telling the doc on my appt that afterwards lately I feel like I'm being stretched out. He says it's hormones and then looked at dh and congratulated him-strange sense of humor, my doc! But he said no need to stop while treating UTI-I thought that was odd, I thought I read somewhere that you shouldn't have s_x when treating a UTI? I usually just soak in the tub (just warm-not hot) and that feels better. You'd think that would stop me, wouldn't you? I guess I have to get rid of the s_xy boxers, right punkin? Actually maybe I should get dh to wear them in the 1st place! Quiet thread today...TTC-sending you loads & loads & loads of baby dust!!!!

 

Lovedblessings - March 12

Hi Ladies, My doctor's appointment is tomorrow and I can't wait to see if my body is preparing for labour. Punkin, sounds like your mil is putting some effort in which is wonderful for you! You do not need extra stress. Hopeful and Excited, very smart plan to type your thank you letters. Personalizing each letter works just fine. That is what I did for my shower for my 13 month old. Save your hands for changing all those diapers! LOL Babymakes5, Yes I would love to go naturally. Cranberry juice works wonders for bladder infections. (more prevention for myself) My last pregnancy my s_x drive was right up there where yours seems to be now. At this point my only desire to have s_x would be to help soften my cervix. Poor DH, I asked him if he would mind reliving his high school years and having s_x being over in a minute or so. Well, I guess I was the only one who found that funny since he wasn't laughing. He did manage half a smirk! TTC# 335 the internet is a great tool. Here's more baby dust! Tracy, glad your relaxing on the couch. Are you feeling more settled?

 

lovemy3 - March 12

Hey all. Just thought I'd check in and see how you are all doing? Nobodies had their babies yet, so thats good. Nothing new here, cd13 again, and going to see what happens this month. tracy88, how are things with the glucose? Hopeful, col, BM5, loved, tylersmommy, TTC, Punkin, and everyone. Hope you are all well. hard to believe our May, June thread is almost going to be at may soon-WOW! Hugs to all

 

TTC#3@35 - March 13

BM5 - Dont get rid of those boxers yet. who knows when you'll get it when your new baby comes! THanks for the baby dust! LB - I had a smirk too! that was funny.. come on! But that's what my dr told me oh so long ago.. bd as much as you can to ripen cervix.. cant wait to here your birth story! Tracy- You gave me a chuckle too.. glad to hear you haven't pulled your hair out yet! rub your belly for me! ttc - 5dpo

 

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