Maybe Pregnat

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mandy - October 3

I have been on this list for ages,I am so scared of giving birth,that I refused pregancy,I gained confidence on here,and let my guard down,now I think I maybe pregnant,today I am feeling sick and so giddy.If this is the start I want out now.I don't think I can do this,I'm supposed to be flying in january,I get giddy when I'm sitting still.

 

Maidencanada - October 3

Hi Mandy, I have 2 kids and also had one mc, and each one was planned. Yet when I took the test and it came back positive each time I was horrified. What have I done? What an idiot I am, this is a bad time, what was I thinking, maybe I should end it, how could I be so stupid? Lol, that happened each and every time and it lasted a couple of days to almost a week in one case. Odd because they were planned and I was thrilled to bits after the initial OMG feelings. I chalk it up to the fear of knowing I have just taken a life altering step. Here I am actively trying to concieve (I am in the waiting to take the test stages) and I am sure I will feel the same way again if and when I find out I am pregnant. Both my sister, sis in law and best friend felt this way as well. Don't worry, if you are pregnant, you will be thrilled to bits in a few days I guarantee it. Congrats and good luck!

 

: - October 3

Mandy, you need to first go to your doctor and have a pregnacy test. Then you need to seek counselling. If you are pregnant and want this baby, you need to calm down and stop thinking the worst and find some support groups and get through this. If you are not pregnant and your fears of pregnancy are so great that you already want to stop this even thinking that you are, PLEASE go get your tubes tied. Do not become someone who has one abortion after another because you thought you could, then changed your mind. Maybe long term couselling can help you be ready for a baby some day.

 

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