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Hello....I was wondering how you told your partner about your pregnancy, I want a creative/special way to tell my hubby (no I dont have the BFP yet but I want to be ready because when I get it I wont be able to wait to get ideas from you ladies....I want this time to be special because with our DD I was thinking I had a medical problem because I just stopped the Dept shot 5 mos earlier and according to the booklet on it it should have taken 12-18 mos to get out of my system so when I was late we thought a medical problem but It was our DD then with Joshua, our DD was 11 mos old and I was on the pill never missed a dose same time everyday and I was suppose to start a new pack of pills that night and I realized I hadnt had my period and I couldnt take that pill with a "what if" in my mind so I tested and I was preggo ///// I had a Csection with Josh and had my tubes tied ....some may know others may not but we lost our Josh to SIDS when he was 9 weeks old////I have had a tubal reversal and waiting on my post-op appt to get the green light to do the baby dance (my appt is April 29) so I want to get some ideas for when and IF it happens to some creative and romantic way to tell him so it will be special since I and we have went through so much to try to have another one ))) sorry if I have rambled or told to much I just want you to understan why it means so much for it to be "an extra special" announcement....any suggestion appriciated!!!!!
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it should read Depo shot not Dept sorry
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punkin01 - I don't know yet but I do want it to be special have you thought of any ideas yet. I'm in the 2ww as of right now I am 4dpo and AF is due on May 12. I will have to get to thinking. Krissy68
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Hi Punkin! Yes, I remember reading your story and about your little angel, Josh. I can not even begin to imagine what you have been through but I'm sure that you're a much stronger woman now and I'd say YOU really really deserve to get your BFP soon!!! I wish you all the best in TTC. How was your appointment on the 29th? ***As to how to make a special announcement, I've heard of taking an ultrasound picture and framing it then giftwrapping it to give to someone special but I don't think you want to wait until your 1st u/s even though you'll probably get one done early. What I did with my current pregnancy was leave my pregnancy test stick on the bathroom counter in a prominent place where my dh was sure to see it but that's not really very special or romantic. With my first pregnancy, I invited my dh to go out to dinner at a nice restaurant and then when he suggested we get a bottle of wine I told him I couldn't drink any alcohol because I was pregnant but that he should order a gla__s of champagne so I could have a sip of his. I know it's not so creative but for the two of us it was romantic and special. I have a feeling that no matter how you tell your partner, it will be very very special for both of you.
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well this is what I have so far.....hubby works 7 am to 3:30 pm and I have to be AT work at 3 pm so she goes to Day care for about an hour and 15 mins everyday.....I want to get a tshirt with I am going to be a big sister (or something like that) and let her wear it to daycare...then I will take her as usual and IF I can get someone to work for me that day I will hang out at the daycare and hide my car or get someone to drop us off...and I will just hang out till DH arrives and normally when he arrives they are on the playground so I could mix in with the "teachers" and then when he sees the shirt (hopefully reads it) then I will approach him or be waiting at the truck when he is leaving////////or send balloons to his work (like one of each "its a boy and girl) (or several blue and several pink) and have them delivered to "sam" and when "sam" is reading the card it will say this is not for you they are for "Punkin hubby" then I could be waiting outside and pop in.....and sam is like 65 and never married no kids so it would be kinda funny there......not sure which yet
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