July Mommies Chapter 2 Part 10
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Heather - LMAO - you strut your granny knee highs girl and get down with your bad self! LOL you are so funny ok well my girlfriend called and she is in the clear for now they want to see her twice a week to monitor the baby and if HE shows any distress they will do a c-section.....yes it can be pretty gnarly from what I have read but she is so calm and not worried at all....Kolleen - I feel that way too sometimes but I feel so much better knowing I can tell you guys - 1/2 the time I dont' tell others about what I am feeling because I dont' think it's nice of them to tell me 100 reasons why I shouldn't feel that way - uh hello - I don't have to justify my feelings you jerks! so.....STEF- so glad I make you laugh because that is really my intention and don't be in such a hurry for hemorrhoidsthey can hurt like hell and are gross! lol TRUST ME!!!
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Good Morning sweeties, I'm so excited because it's Thursday - one day closer to Friday & I'm ready for the weekend. Have lots to do like paint, clean and get stuff moved, I just wanna get it done - I hate sitting around thinking about it. I did get offered 2 cribs-for free, one is brand new in the box (white) and the other is (oak) and is gently used. So I will pick one but if anybody else wants the other one I could ship it to you. Stef - I thought about you yesterday - at the dr's it took the nurse a couple minutes to get the hb because baby would not cooperate at all. I know you had said it takes you a little while to find the hb sometimes. Tina - that's great news about your friend, her being so calm is probably helping her & baby alot right now. You think I will look cute in my granny socks? OMG - I should post a picture on piczo when I get a pair today!!! That way you can all be jealous & run out and get yourself some! lol. Kolleen - you are not alone, I think everyone has those days and you just feel like leaving the world behind. Sometimes when I get like that, it's a sign for me to make a point to take out some time for just me, and do whatever I feel like doing. Hope today is a better day for you :0) Chat with you guys later!!
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well ladies sound like weve all had plenty to worry about; everyone sorry for the bad news and everything in between lol. =[ sry seriously. well today is day two of school; we have to check eachothers b/p's again last time mine was 122/44 which is about normal for me; but strad was kicking also so i d k. lol. its usually 60s at the bottom? i don't know why it wasn't i will see what it is today. im excited for cla__s ive been studying we have a quiz next Thursday the 3rd & i will be almost 27 weeks =] exciting; then the following tuesday we have a report due ? im nervous i think ill start it this weekend im a bit scared tho; but what the hell you have to get through it sooner or later.
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Kendra - don't get yourself stressed out over school, it will all be fine - just do the best you can and that's all anyone can ask for. :)
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Heather - girl you always make me smile first thing in the morning - hey I might be very interested in one of those cribs and I bet shipping wouldn't be so bad - I might like white but even the oak I could stain to cherry as I am getting 2 cherry dressers from my mom when she moves ....that would be awesome! I am all about gently used - so let me know that is sure a sweet offer you are making to all of us ....if shipping gets above 75.00 it won't really be worth it for me but let me know....it also might be a pain in the a__s for you to ship it too.....KENDRA - girl don't you apologize to us that's what we are here for - support, venting, encouragement! I bet this cla__s is going to fly by......So how is everyone else doing? I just had a very mediocre cinnamon roll - what a waste - it wasn't even hardly sweet. oh well - for lunch I have to meet a friend at starbucks and then I might head to taco bell we'll see - I am craving junk food right now....which is not good!! arrrgggghhhh ok I am over it....Happy Thursday - one more day!
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Good morning ladies.. hows everyone??
im 25 weeks today i cant believe it.. 15 more weeks to go.. i get anxious but so emotional at the same time.. i have this werid dreams that im always breaking down in tears but the dreams are so unexplainable.. i havent talk to anyone about this..
but im getting more scared the more days pa__s.. im just afraid of everything.. i feel like i know what i am going to do.. but inside i feel lost n just afraid.. i dont want to fall into any sadness n not be able to be a good mom.. i guess im starting to feel it..
it just sucks to feel that way.. but ive made it this far n i try to tell myself ill be ok
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Kendra n Colleen.. i just wanna tell you ladies ya'll inspire me.. i wouldn't be able to go to work and skool and be preggo.. psh.. i couldn't even work! but you guys are doing a good thing and your children are going to appreciate it in the long run. I know it must be tough for you guys but just know ya'll got a great reward at the end! Im happy for you guys!!!
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Julia, it's ok to feel this way! It's good to talk about it too. I think once we all start to get to the third tri (at least for me) it is becoming more and more real and I'm worrying about all kinds of things (like, will I be a good mom!?). I kept Jessie up forever last night going over things we should and should not do with our daughter--oh my gosh I sit and think all day long of everything from teaching her new things to what I should let her eat and everything! It makes my head hurt sometimes and I just want her to be happy and healthy. Lots to think about so you are not alone! OK, so we have 6 days till the move? Is that the countdown status? or is it 5?
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Good morning all. Precious we are due the same day and i say every wednesday i am another week thats just how mine adds up :) Kendra just think positive, you know you can do it girl.... I had one of my daughters friends mom come over last night to introduce herself just so we know each other and she saw i was pregnant and asked how far along i am and i told her she was all really you dont look that big.... i was all Thank You, Thank you.. I feel huge.. I see pics with girls due around the same time as me and they to me look smaller.. I guess we all just feel bigger to ourselves sometimes he he.... I am kind of sensitive and moody lately... I also feel kind of bad that i dont want to be more intimate with my boyfriend i just dont feel like it and i feel he wants to and i just dont... i dont know what to do about that :( but we will just see
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Hillary I feel the same way about being intimate so don't feel bad. I try to "help him out" but other than that it's not often. I swear he is going to say no to anymore kids after having to go without for so long :( QUESTION!!!! Ok, how are you guys carrying who are having girls? I've had so many people say to me "you're having a boy, right?" and I'm like noooo, it's a girl. And they say it's because I'm carrying low. What's up with that? Now i"m getting worried about the gender being wrong after buying all this stuff, lol :) I know that is a wives tale about how you carry but I want to ask others how they are.
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Julia - you are not alone in your thoughts ....I wonder that still and my boys are 8 and 4 ....am I a good mom? do I make the best decisions for them? are they healthy enough? it's quite stressful being a parent and then we make it worse by tormenting ourselves - STEF - LOL poor Jessie...LOL jk - you guys that is normal - I read a quote once - becoming a mother means agreeing to let your heart run around outside of your body - we all hope/want/strive for the best for our kids...that's all we can do - WE WILL ALL MAKE MISTAKES - BIG AND SMALL that is just a part of life and raising a family. right now I have to decide do I keep working to help bring in money or just stay home after the baby and home school my boys (which I don't want to do) especially with a newborn....decisions decisions.....sometimes I just want to run away from it all - take our family and just leave in the night and start over - start from scratch ...no bills no car no nothing - what a thought huh? oh well since that is not reality I will have to face it and deal with it! LOL I dont usually run from issues I am just sick of being stressed about it and I love coming on here and letting it all go and at work noone is bugging me about the future. It's great! We are all going to experience anxiety - whether it's about a healthy baby or finances or jobs or school or whatever - just think of that nice guilt free gla__s of wine we will be able to enjoy once our little ones are safely out! LOL HUGS to you all - and cheer up - the light at the end of the tunnel is getting brighter....we will all be posting our delivery stories before we know it! LOL
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Check out my belly pics.. at our site :-)
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thanks guys i know im not alone it just feels werid.. Lucky i turn 25wks yesterday i just forgot it was thurs today!! lol since i am always home i forget what day it is!!
my sister in law went to the docs yesterday and she is 23 weeks preggo .. they still havent told her , her due date.. i was trying to figure it out 4 her.. they measured her babys head and thats how they found out how many weeks he/she is.. i still cant believe it.. i wonder which baby will come out 1st! she'll find out the gender next week!
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Hello again guys, It's no doubt that we all have our plate full right now, with worries and fears and everything in-between. But- It will all work itself out in the end, of course we are going to worry about being a good mom, but Tina's right, you just do the best you can and make the best decisions you know how. Our kids are going to love us as much as we love them, and really that's all a kid needs is love & support - they don't care about much else. Tina - I am going to look over those cribs and let you know, if the white one will work for you then that's great - I think that is the one still in the box anyway. It's no problem to ship it out, I will check on the price too & let you know. I can post the pics of it also so you can see it. I did my glucose test today while I had to go give blood anyway and the drink was actually really good - just like fruit punch.
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Steph i am having a girl and i am carrying low
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