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Here but barely. Didnt want to get out of bed this morning and just had one of those weekends. You know, the hormonal, no one loves me, everyone hates, just leave me alone before I punch you in the jaw. I am just having doubts about me and the bf's relationship. I know its prolly just me being hormonal but eh...what are you gonna do. Other than that....had another preggie dream that the babies where boys and one was really fat lol. Premonition?! LOL. How are you ladies this morning? Hope you had a decent weekend!

it's probably hormonal - you remember belly laughs? - i've been becoming psycho chick and it's not taking much at all - it took all my willpower not to snap at my hubby for the smallest things this weekend! - it's quite ridiculous, but what do you do? what are you doubting?

I do remember Belly Laughs, the psyco chick is the worst. I hear ya. I dont know really what I am doubting but its little things that make me think he doesnt want to be with me anymore and I know I am prolly reading more into it than whats really there. Like before I got preggers we used to be like rabbits man all crazy and all the time and yeah you know, we liked it a little ahem...rough sometimes. He suggested it last night and I cried because I thought he was being insensitive. Then last night I wanted to stay in because some of my shows were comming on TV last night and so he left me there by myself to go hang out with on of our neighbors then tells me later one of our neighbors roomates was informing him that she would cheat on her husband if given the chance. He was disgusted and he isnt interested in her like that and I have seen her and she is ahem, not to be rude, but soooo not a threat to me if you know what I mean. But it still bothered me that he was over there and they were talking about that and he made the comment to me that if he was GOING to waste his time cheating it would be with something better than her. So I got upset and was like oh...so you would make sure she was hotter and worth the chance of getting caught and loosing me and our relationship? Just everything he says makes me upset. I feel like I am so hormonal and crying that he doesnt want to be around me.

it can be easy to take things out of context right now since we are so over-emotional - but at the same time, i can understand why you'd think what you do - i think we over-a___lyse things too when we're hormonal - in any event, even tho you are getting upset more frequently with him, you have to tell him that's how it's goin to be for a bit - and he needs to understand that - i told my husband that i'm "off" right now - and to be more sensitive - and he agreed to try and not argue when i am being, said, psycho chick - as far as the cheating goes, i am almost positive a pre-preggo robyn would be like "try it, just try it" - but right now, we are so wrapped up in making sure everything's okay and that we're loved, that we just get upset...i'm sure he won't cheat and that the "hotter" thing was just a pa__sing comment and nothing more, but right now, our men need to be careful about their timing - it needs to be impeccable right now. i went over this this weekend cuz hubby mentioned how we wanted a night out with the boys and this was right after his friend was pretending to bug him about not being "allowed" to go out... well, i was p__sed and told him his timing sucked a__s... then he apologized and said that he wasn't planning on going out for a guys' night until i was "normal" -i.e. not pregnant or hormonal - anyhow, i think they just need to realize that their timing is everything and they can't just say what's on their mind right now cuz it's hazardous...

Yeah his friends do that too, the whole not being able to go out thing. I think its rediculous because even though I am hormonal and want him around, I still understand he needs some time out. Tha was really bad timing on your hubbies part though I would have gotten upset also. For some reason all my trust in my bf is gone for right now and that hurts both our feelings because he feels like he cant leave and I feel like if he does then he is going to leave forever. Man I feel like such a drama queen. Me and him just need to sit down and talk but its so hard to talk to him because when he is set in a certain way, thats the way it is and thats that. Talking to a brick wall sometimes lemme tell ya. And if he does give in and see things from my side for two seconds he gets p__sed because he thinks I am trying to control him. I think he is the pregnant one sometimes! I just want to sleep and be held and be loved right now and he cant handle that? Then what am I doing? Its not like I am asking for much, a little extra 'I love Us' and 'Oh you look beautiful in those stretch pants' isnt going to hurt. But whatever, I guess I am hormonal and thats all there is too it. I am tired of this though.

Good morning you two. Seems like no one else is here yet. Sorry about your relationship right now Robyn. But if it makes you feel better he might have just been asking about the "rough" thing because he knew you liked it and he wasn't sure if you might still want it or not. Might have been that he wasn't wanting to not give you something that maybe you wanted? O.K., that sounded confusing, hopefully you understood what I was saying. I even had a hard time and I knew what I meant. As far as the cheating thing. He might have been bringing it up with the ugly chick because he KNEW you wouldn't feel threatened by her and maybe he thought it would be a non-threatening way to let you know that he would never cheat on you. He was no doubt about it a jack-a__s about the way he decided to do it, if that is what he was trying to do. But...guys are idiots. Especially the "hotter" comment. I don't know hon. You know your guy, I don't. You would know much better than me if he was just being a jack-a__sed idiot or not. But...he should be a lot more sensitive then what he is being so just try talking to him about trying to do that. Let him know that you are carrying his kids right now and you need him to be there for you and the next time he does something inappropriate you might just have to throw something at his a__s. :-)

Ha ha ha misty, thats good. Resort to the good ol' talk to me or be in the path of a blunt object I am about to chuck at you....ha ha never fails. He just is doing a lot of back and forth and one minute he is all lovey and cuddly and all that and the next he is all well....not. We will see, its just nice to vent ya know. Of course you know! LOL, thanks for listening and giving me your input,and if you hear about a guy with a peanut head having to surgically remove womans size 7 shoe from his a__s in Washington State, you will know who it is. Sweet...we might make headlines!

don't worry robyn - this too shall pa__s - i think it's not only cuz we're pregnant - i think it's because we've decided to have relationships with MEN... like i always tell my girlfriends, if we were lesbians, we wouldn't be having this conversation :)

True, what can we say, we're the more evolved of the two. Men must have evolved from Dogs or something that pants and has excess body hair and low IQ. At least you can teach dogs to listen...men...not so much.

lol, I wonder if anyone had a good weekend. At work for me this weekend me and my partner took a group of 20 people. They loved us and on top of the gratuity that they knew was added (since we have to circle it and tell them) one person left us another $112. How kick-a__s is that! But...my partner was unorganized with the way she collected money from people, and I was just making change. I never (I should have though) wrote things off in the computer when I was done making change for people. Anyhow, come the end of it we were 68 dollars short. We still made 35 a piece off the table. But it should have been like 70 a piece. That is a lot of money to lose and we were both so p__sed. Neither of us handled things correctly. But at least we both were willing to admit that it was both of us and so she wasn't just trying to blame it on me..or vice versa. Also my boss got all strict on making sure pants were dark enough and he told me mine were too light and if I needed to get a ddarker pair, that I couldn't work til I had them. Ahhh. I had to go into the mall and buy a regular pair of dark blue pants (that will only fit for like 1 month) because Motherhood Maternity didn't have what I needed and they are the only maternity store in the mall. So p__sed, soon enough I will have to get yet another pair of pants. Plus, I was so p__sed form my day that when I got home I tore one of my two work shirts. Now I have to go get another shirt already too. O.K. this thread should have just been called the vent.

you know, you're right - sometimes i feel like my dogs, especially my boy one, is more sensitive than my man... but my dog's a momma's boy so he always knows when i'm upset... sometimes all i want is for him to hold me... not to say anything else... like you said, is that too much to ask for?

rb- you wouldnt think its too much, but then again I asked my man to rinse the milk out of the bottom of his gla__s umpteen million times and its still sitting in the sink 5 days later. Im not touchin it! I just want to be held to and he obviously cant do it. Sometimes I just want to threaten him, that if he doesnt cuddle and hold me I will find someone else who will!!! I would never in a million years but man...thats how I feel sometimes. Misty- sorry you had a bad day at work. I used to waitress and the till came up short before and man people got reamed whether it was there fault of not! I hated it. Then having to buy new clothes especialy when youre just going to have to turn around and buy more ina few months anyways?! Youre boss should be more understanding! Want me to kick his/her a__s? I'll do it....

:-) Quite a few people at work were mad at him for doing that also. I still fit in my old pants, but only barely, nad only the old ones(two of them) that are stretchy from so much usage. So, I am too small for maternity still, but too big for my normal size clothes. It just seemed like such a waste. But, according to my boss we have work standards that we just have to maintain and me being pregnant doesn't excuse me from that. It makes sense, that doesn't stop it from sucking though. Where is everyone else anyways?

Prolly working...pfft...like we have jobs or something lol. Dont know I got here kind late this morning because I had a lot of c___p to do, Rb had to start the new thread...thats like woah...lol.

hey girls - gonna try to go home soon - feel like c___p - will check in later from home...

Sorry you dont feel well. I want to go home too, but I have an u/s tomarrow and am going to be leaving at like 1:00. So we will see.