Very Very Unprotected Sex
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Me and my boyfriend are living together and very much in love. Just this last month we decided that we wouldn't mind have a baby. We're both young but we're able to give a child a pretty decent life. Ever since about a week or to ago he has been finishing inside of me and now whenever we have intercourse it's very painful. I've also had regular abdominal pains like cramping but i'm about 2weeks away from my period. I have also been experiencing constipation and occasionally feeling sick. Could any of this be pregnancy symptoms?
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Most women ovulate 14 days before the start of their period. If you're just now 14 days away from the start of your period, it is rather unlikely that you're pregnant. Constipation can explain the cramping. If the pain you feel during s_x is also cramping like then it is likely also constipation. If it's cramping during s_x and increasing your water intake and fibre and fruit intake.
If it's not that, other possibilities could be a decrease in foreplay (now that s_x is about making babies, are you cutting corners in this area?), or it could be an infection or STD. Make an appointment with your doctor to rule out the latter.
There's a big difference between "wouldn't mind" and "really want". I don't mean to question your decision, but kids, especially newborns are a real challenge that will push you to the break of physical, mental and emotional exhaustion. If you're not 110% committed to having kids right now, it would be best to wait. The challenges ahead require complete commitment (for about 18 years, no less). If you're young, what's the rush?
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