Help For A Teen S Mom

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Jules39 - July 27

My son's 15 year old girlfriend started her period on June 13, 2011 and she has a 28 or less day cycle. My son had s_x with her on July 6th. She is saying that she has taken 3 pregnancy tests and they are all positive. Could she have gotten pregnant on July 6th? She should have started her period on that day or at the latest on July 11th. Please help me! I am so confused right now and need to find out. I have done a thousand ovulation tests online and they all say no.

 

Grandpa Viv - July 27

True, something does not add up here. It's not likely that they only had one episode that cycle. Ask if they were fooling around the weekend of June 25th. It's possible to get s____n into the v____a other than by penetrative intercourse. Sometimes a woman lies about how she got pregnant, but that is usually someone older, not a fifteen year old. Congratulations, Grandma!

 

Jules39 - July 27

They only met on July 3rd! The only time they fooled around was July 6th. He said they used a condom but it broke. He does not live with me full time and would not lie to me because he is scared to death! He will not be fooling around anytime soon! Why would the pregnancy tests say positive? I think she was pregnant when he was with her on the 6th, if she is even pregnant. I got some rea__surance from your response until you called me Grandma! So since the dates don't add up I don't believe that she is pregnant, at least not by my son.

 

Grandpa Viv - July 27

You are right, she may not be pregnant, just a drama queen or testing the waters. Sometimes even a fifteen year old woman lies about how she got pregnant. When you described her as the son's girlfriend, I a__sumed they had a long-term relationship. Now it appears they are both into casual s_x. a__suming her last period did start June 13, whoever she was with about June 25th is the likely father. The only way your son could be responsible is if she was about to have a 35 day cycle instead of 28-. That would have delayed ovulation until your son's incident. Does she occasionally have long cycles? Has she been under stress or sickness that might have caused this? The dates on which she ran the tests might give a clue. I would be double doubting her story if she got a positive test around July 11th when she was expecting her period.

 

Jules39 - July 28

This is the first time my son had s_x and I'm a__suming it was not her first. She says she has a 28 day or less cycle. I thought I had taught my son better, but i guess no matter how well you raise them, they are going to make mistakes. For some reason I feel as if I failed as a parent by him having casual s_x with a girl he had only known for 3 days but that is irrelevant. I have told him that if she is pregnant it is most likely that it's not his. I also questioned her why she was taking pregnancy tests when she was just due for her period, she never answered that question to my satisfaction. She has been going thru some stressful things with her home life as well. She is going to the Dr on Friday. Thank you so much! You helped to ease my mind as well as my son's. Thanks again!

 

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