13 And Pregnant What About My Parents

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kristen - September 5

hey girl i just weant to say good luck i wish you all the best trust me and for you girls out there plz stop and think what you are doing i am not trying to beyour mom or anything but i am 14 and have s_x it is not the best thing in the world trust me i put my family throw a lot and it is not cool ok i almost got pregnet i thot i was nut i was not and all i have to say is just wait till your older .trust me if you do when you get older and have s_x it will be ten times better plz just think about it i mean you can email me any time at babygirl_15834@yahoo.com plz just come and talk to me ok i no a lot about this cinde of thing.. i can help you .......plz talk to me

 

kristen - September 5

hey you girls that are 10 and haveing s_x plz think about what you are doin and talk to me or someone when i was reading some of you posted read you made me cry just thinking about it and reading no that i have yunger sisters and just noing that they could be doing this to if you would like to talk email me at babygirl_15834@yahoo.com plz come and talk anyone !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

ashley - September 19

sometimes things happen and u don't mean for them to happen! All i can say that is u should sit him down and let him know that he is the father and he needs to recanize that he shouldrealize that he needs to represent the fact that he is a father to be! The parent fact is out of the question! M y sister is 16 and pregnant and she wrote my father a letter and he took that very calmly, which is a real surprise! Now for his parents make him tell them. Now this may sound crazy but i am also 13 and i have to listen to my dad and my sister argue alot over little things like who is the baby gonna stay w/ over the week. my mom is divorced from my dad so when he told her she cried like every day so be happy

 

B2 - September 22

well the b2 gang thinks that you should tell your parents and talk to your boyfriend because your parents will be there before the father will.

 

Lover - September 26

Well i am 15 yrs old and i am excepting to and i thought that not telling my mother or father would be best for me but when i learn that you can get you baby taken fron you if you personal don't get to the or didnt get the right care so i knew that i want my baby and i didn't want it to come out with any health problem so i had to tell them and go ahead an have them fuss an little but remember THEY CAN NOT HIT YOU so don't worry about that if that do happen all you have to do is report it to the local police department.

 

me age 13 - October 2

i no wot ur goin through i just got pregnant and i am regretin it and its true what you are saying about not wanting an abortion , im worried for my babie and its life without a dad because i no he dont care so im by myself i havnt told my mum or dad yet and dont want to so i dont no what to do i dont reli go school much because peaple say stuff like ur a scet and all this ( how they no i dont no ) im quite far along but im not showing much i just dont no what to do some one help me

 

28 yr old single mother - October 2

To all of the under aged girls who think that you want a baby. STOP!!!! Pls believe me you do not know what problems you are creating for yourselves. I'm 38 wks preg. right now and single. You are not prepared to be mothers yet. You need to wait until you are at the correct age and stabled enough to take care of a child. When you have a baby there are so many things that are cut out of your lives at your ages. There is no more having fun or any of the things that little girls your age want to do. When there is a baby involved it's not about you anymore. It's all about that baby. Times are hard and you will not be able to survive trying to raise a baby. I don't know what kind of parents you have but when iwas your ages there was no such thing as me having a boyfriend my mom would have knocked my a__s out literally I mean that. I was 19 when I had my first B/F and 21 When I had my 1st child and it is hard out here. Focus on being successful in life. Having a baby at a young age will only slow you down on reaching your goals and it make things hard. You girls need to value your lives right now so when you are ready to have a baby the baby will not suffer.

 

nicole - October 3

well i'm 12 and i'm turnin 13 in feb. this is my frist baby that i'm goin to be having i just turned 1 month yesterday, i told my babydaddy and at frist he wanted me to have a abottion n i told him that i don't wanta do that i sat him down and we talked i told him about how mean that is n he said that he wants the baby me n his mother are close we talk like were friends i'm scared to tell my mom and dad and hes scared to tell his 2 . idk what i should do , i'm goin to keep the baby thats for sure but i was wonder when u have the baby can your mom and dad make you put the baby up for adoption ? my b/f n i want to keep the baby and rais him/her we know we are young but were goin to do our best . please email me @ babygirl112980@aol.com

 

Kris - October 6

I set here and read all these post and my heart breaks. I had my first child at 17. Lucky for me my baby's daddy married me. We married 4 months before our son was born. Gosh it was so hard. He worked and I stayed home. Most days I didn't see him or any other person. We had just enough money to cover our bills and no extra stuff. My mom lived in another state and my dad was never really around. It was so hard some days not knowing if we would be able to buy colthing or formula.There were days that we were not able to eat. A child is a living breathing human being. Not a doll that you can cuddle with and put in the closet when you are done. Girls this is a serious thing. I am now 27 and have three wonderful children. My daughter has severe kidney problems and has to have transplant. Have any you thought about what would happen if your baby was born unhealthy and all the things that go with taken care of a diabled child. You guys are so young and do and be anything you like. You have your whole lives ahead of you. I just can't imagine my 10 year old son having a baby. He is my baby. Tell your parents girls they will be your best support system. Don't get me wrong I love each one of my three angels I just wish I would have been able to give them more. Children need so much of your time, love, and support. Things that you have to give them.

 

?? What?? - October 7

Nicola, am I mistaken or did you say "its not killing a human, its not anything yet"??? I think you need to read up on pregnancy because as soon as you get pregnant, it is a human, its not like it inanomint and then after a few months it becomes a human...abortion is killing. plain and simple.

 

Ca__sie - October 28

somebody asked about symptoms, well here they are, headache symptoms,spotting,light headedness(fainting), constipation, heartburn,swollen\tender b___sts, tiredness,nausia\morning sickess, darkining of areolas(nipples), backaches, food cravings. if u descover any of these see a doctor ASAP!

 

April - November 2

Well dont get an abortion its wrong. I'm 14 and im not allowed to be with my boyfriend but I could be pregnant. i love him and want to be with him but I can't. But ne ways odnt get an abortion and if the babys daddy dont know you need to tell him because you didn't climb on top of yourself and get pregnant but dont get an abortion

 

dawn - November 9

I been reading these posts and i am a little dissapointed in all the advice to tell children that having an abortion is evil. there are way to many 13 year olds on here who want a baby because they want a little friend to love them and spend time with. it is not evil to have an abortion i not suggesting it but honestly in the case of a pregnant 9 , 11 or 13 year old it may be the best option that or adoption. abortion is not killing a baby. many pregnancies go on to miscarriage but you wouldn't have a funeral. yes it has a heartbeat and a blood type but so do other basic forms of life. you can't think of what could have been. every egg has the possibility of creating a baby. i am not condoning acting irrisponsible and using abortion as birth control. it should be a last resort but it was made legal for a reason. a 9 year old is at great risk being pregnant. when you are only 13 you are not fully capable of supporting a baby you really should consider at least adoption. you can have an open adoption and know what happend to the baby and who is taking care of it and get updates. being pregnant at such a young age ans single is a major cause of poverty and its not worth bringing a child into that situation. if everyone who had an abortion had their baby we wouldn't have enough resources for everyone, crime would go up and it wouldn't be good.

 

jane - November 9

having a baby when you are young is no picnic. sure you'll love your kid but it will be hard. a newborn needs constant attention and so do children. it isn't all fun and playing with your kid especially if you are poor which is another huge stressor. if you have a lot of help from parents it will be easier but it still isn't some fairy tale. its a lot harder than you think. i think middle schools and high schools need to do that program where you have to take care of another younge couple's baby and meet other young parents so they know what it is really like. a baby deserves a good home and when you're only a teenager or even younger you are more than likely won't be in a finacially stable position or emotionally stable enough to really be there. you won't be able to afford anything and you'll be stuck and its not just you anymore. it's not easy when you're in your 20's and 30's and in a stable position. i know all you 13-year-olds who want babies think you are emotionally ready but you just don't realize all the changes you will go through. who will watch the baby when you are in school? who will support it? if you do work do you realize how much you would earn and what the cost of living is? is it fair to make your parents support your kid? to have a 13 year boy choose to spend his whole life with you when he will change so much as he matures. please think through your decisions better. babysit if you like babies and children. or try baby think it over first to see how you like caring for an infant that is constanly needing attention without being able to stop. if you want a baby with someone who doesn't even want to be with you it won't get better just because you have a baby it will get worse. a baby doesn't give love it needs love and if you can't even cope with a boyfriend breaking up with you how can you handle the responsibility of a child.

 

Leah - November 17

Hey I'm 13 and I'm not even thinking about s_x yet!!! I homeschool so that helps alot.I think it is really wrong for kids like 10 years old to be having s_x!Even at my age it's still wrong.

 

dawn go to this site - November 18

http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html it is, in fact a tiny baby. and stopping it from living, is in fact, killing.

 

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