Can Someone Explain This One

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lonely - September 11

I have been with this guy for 5 years, i love him to death and he says the same about me, i made a big mistake and cheated on him, we had built a house together and everything, but, i have paid my dues for the mistake i made. My mom passed away, his parents put thier name on the deed of the house so now all my money went down the drain and i had to find a place, Then after all is said and done, he still loves me but, feels trapped between his parents and me. They all live in our house while i rent from place to place, Then i got pregnant, i miscarried at 17 weeks, he said he loves me but, can't be with me because of his parents. Now i am in a lawsuit over the house to get my money back, she (his mother) charged me with credit card fraud because we have a joint account, Now i have trial for that, and the house and he refuses to give it up. He wants the house so after loosing my baby and going through h__l, he still says he loves me but, don't know what to do because he is caught in the middle. So my year has been a nightmare, i have paid so much for my mistake, we have a business together but, he can't give up the house. So what should i do, i love him with all my heart. And his parents were a good portion of me cracking and cheating on him. His dad would hire people to break us up. Now the other day i was at the house crying because we just lost our son and they called the cops. Can you believe these people. But what should i do i love him and he says he loves me even though right now his parents and friends are having a big effect on him. Please help. My life just can't get worse.

 

cold hard facts - September 12

He doesn't love you enough obviously or he would be able to make his parents understand. He could at least be man enoguh to say to them "Yes, she made mistakes but I forgive her and love her. I am going to be with her" but he hasn't, the writing is on the wall. Your life CAN get better, if you move on. Either you will find someone who treats you better, or he will realize he is going to lose you and must be with you. I wouldn't count too much on the last part. You are living for him, he is living for his parents. That can't make either of you very happy people.

 

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