Help Could He Take It Away From Me
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I am 18-21
My boyfriend and I have been only going out for a month. We were both virgins and had never been involved with anyone before. Now its pointing to the fact that Im pregnant.
We had talked about before we started having s_x what would happen if accidents happen, and he had said that I could live with his parents until I had the baby (he doesn't know I could be pregnant, I was on pill). I'm not going to hold my breath because that kind of thing happens all the time when they guy leaves.
I'm so afraid that if I had the baby, my bf would use against me the fact that I'm bipolar. I'm afraid he would try to take 100% custody claiming Im mentally unstable (I'm on medication and take it faithfully).
What are my options? How do I tell someone Ive only been going out for a short time that Im pregnant?
If Im pregnant, I do plan on keeping the baby.
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Just want to say that its not that bf is that kind of person, but Im concerned because of my mental illness.
people have a way of changing with a pregnancy I have read.
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the only way is if he can prove you unstable or unfit (i am bipolar and am controlled by meds) although i would be careful about taking meds if you are pregnant (I had to go off of mine) Just make sure that you are in the care of a doctor for your mental illness and that you take all of the doctors suggestions. And call your doctor asap about your meds during pregnancy b/c some can cause birth defects. Good Luck any more questions just ask ive been there...
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i am a 36 years single depressive mum of 2 boys age 16 and 7 and i also 5 months pregnant as well . i have suffered from depression on and off since i was 16 . i am not on any meds at this moment in time cos of the baby . i know what u are going thru . no one can take away your baby because you have a mental illness . look at me , i have still got my 2 boys . they will take away your baby if you was abusing or neglecting it which i don't think you ever do . don't worry about it . enjoy this pregnancy . good luck . no one can take away your baby because you have a mental illness . we have got rights too . don't ever forget that . stand up for your rights girlfriend . hope everthing turns out well for you . people like us deserve a happy ending . bye bye
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