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ohhh Jessica G...Bless your heart. it may not seem that way now, but things will get better. all of you ladies stories have touched my heart. stay strong sweetie and remember...financial situations change all the time and after your baby is born, you'll never be lonely again. Best Wishes everyone.

Louise, I feel like I wrote that! Like you took my words.. my ex has NO compa__sion. I ,too, am crying, stressed, scared, losing sleep..all those things. Tonight I was crying so hard, I went to my parent's because I couldn't be alone. Every time I call my ex, he is filled with so much anger and hatred. It is NOT the man I know 2 years ago. We will get through this.. good luck. If you want to email me, let me know. :)

I am 18 weeks pregnant and split with my bf just last week after lots of rows, suspicious behaviour (staying out all night, calls from women at 6am). He now says he doesn't like pregnant women (he has 2 kids with a previous partner and did the same to her). I'm 26, he's 38 and it was him who persuaded me to try for a baby. I feel cheated really and very lonely at the moment. But, it's better to be on your own now and prepare yourself for baby rather than split once baby has arrived surely? I have no idea how I'm going to cope on my own but I have to. I never thought I'd be a single mother let alone with someone so horrible but I am going to be. Lots of people have said to me that he'll change his mind when baby is here, but, to me, baby is here already so that'll be too late. I love this baby already and am sure as hell going to do the very best I can and draw on every single resource that's available in order to do it! Goodluck and I'm sure we'll be fine!

Hello ladies, I just actually stumbled upon this forum and was reading your posts. I am very sorry for all that is going on in your lives. I did want to tell you that I had the same thing happen to me twice. I was 17 when I got pregnant the first time and the father started cheating on me and left, then met a great guy got pregnant again... and he ended up leaving me for a young girl too. Needless to say I felt horrible being a single mom with two kids....by differant dads. But Its all worked itself out. My kids are now 8 and 6 and wonderful. I have a wonderful man in my life, and I thank god that he has giving me what he has. You all deserve the best and it will come better than you ever imagined in time. I know this might not help right now but just thought maybe I could lift your spirits!!

Thank you all for your advice:) Cali36 I would love to email you if you give me your address.

Claudette-- Sounds just like me..My ex also thought that I owed him an apology for keeping the baby, and is so angry that he has to pay child support for a baby that he doesn't want. My ex is 33 and I'm 28, you would think that he would be just a little more mature, but no. He is acting like a baby, I never even hear from him anymore. What a jerk, I also thought that he was a great guy. People show their true colors in times like these. Good luck to you, and just know that there are alot of us going throught this similar situation!:)