I Think I May Be Unstable
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Hmmm...well Im 8months pregnant and Im alone I already have one child but with someone else and my other child is six , I never planne dthis pregnancy but it happened I was in a relationship when this happened but we were fightning alot and now he doesnt talk to me or even seem concerned about the baby and it tearing me apart I really want him to be apart of our babies life but he already has a kid and he was an ass to that kids mom also I dont know why i thgt it would be different with me but it isnt sometimes I think about how I can induce my labour and that scares me cause I know I can hurt the baby but I hate being pregnant and i hate the father right now too i dont know who to talk to about this Im afraid if I tell ppl they will put me in a psych ward or something Im really scared
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Please get help *Ash_Cheeks*. You recognise this isn't healthy. Talk to your GP about your options. You can speak to mental health proffessionals without being in a psych ward. There should be some support you can seek within your community and where is your family? And would it be so bad if you spent time in a psych ward at the moment? If your scared you will huirt your baby and yourself, then it may be the best place for you for now. Not sure what options you have in your local area. Do your research. Find out your options but most of all find someone you trust to talk to. You need support. Babies dads obviously not going to give it to you so ask someone else. You don't have to suffer in silence.
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Hi well thx for wht you wrote HARSH but needed to be said and whn I wrote it and looked back at it for some reason I felt better because I realized he aint worth it d__n him and his immature ways GOD gave me a baby n I am blessed and whn i was considering abortion and whn i looked it up OMG !!! it was so evil and those poor helpless babies and those selfish women are really dumb so i am goin to see a counsellor and probably after the baby is born also because i thk im just depreressed and i thk it'll get worse after the baby is born but thk you for takin the time to respond tho
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I am so glad to hear that ash. You are very blessed and have a good head on your shoulders. The right thing to do is not always the easiest. Good luck to you. Keep strong and I'm sure you will make it through this.
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I wasn't trying to be harsh at all, sorry if it upset you. I just wanted to let you know that you can get help. I'm really glad your feeling better now. I hope that speaking to a counsellor helps you. PND isn't uncommon but it is managable. I wish you the best of luck
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good luck with things ash. I think most reading your comments knew you were just being candid at a point when you're feeling really down. You are right, he is not worth it!! sending u happy thoughts
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Believe in yourself you can do it,my mother always told me always a mother maybe a father.A child is a blessing you will be a great mother you can't make this man be a father he has to do it for himself.Go see a counsellor and take care of your 2 beautiful kids.Be strong you can do it
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hey ash_cheeks, just wondering how things went with you. I hope your feeling better! Chances are your about to pop!! Good luck, sending you happy, healthy vibes
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