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I need sum help!! Im 19 years old and i thought i would be spending the rest of ma life with the man ive been in love with since i was 15. But things went down hill, he went to prison for 5 months and i split up with him when he got out.We ended up back together a week later, but the night we split up he told me he had a new girlfriend,So i went out on the p___s and ended up sleeping with sumone else and now im pregnant. He told me that even if the child wasnt his he would be there for me and then just last week he split up with me and is now going out with a girl that accused him of raping her months ago! My head is all over the place cause i still love him with all my heart, and i cant live without him. I have contemplated killing myself and have tried a fw times. The baby could be his or this other guys and i dont know what to do! Ifanyone has any advice for me i would much appriciate it as i dont know what to do with my life anymore!!
Thankyou
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gosh honey, i really dont know what to tell you. know that you're not alone, there are a lot of other women going thru what you are going thru. i've been in love w/ baby's daddy #2 for two years... i can say that after 3 years of obsessing over baby's daddy #1, i finally got over him.
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Killing yourself is just gonna cause a whole lot of people a whole lot of grief. Look at the one certain positive, you are gonna be blessed with a little baby, despite who the father is. This guy you love sounds like a major looser to me and the girl he is with must be nuts if she has recently accused him of rape and now they're together. Also if he is the sort of guy to get mixed up in stuff that lands him in jail, do you really want him anywhere near your child? I wouldn't. Do you have any contact with this other guy? Does he know this could be his child? If it is his i think he has the right to know and decide whether he wants to be supportive or not. He may not which would seriously suck arse but he may suprise you. As for advice, all i can say is focus on yourself and your baby now. You are both the most important thing now. How far along are you? Surround yourself with supportive people and don't ever give up hope. Good luck lorny
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