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Okay, so I'm having a totally unplanned birth, I informed the father when I found out and he was kind enough to bring over a few hundered for an abortion. I kindly took his money, asked him to leave and well moved. he told me he didn't want to have a child at this time in his life and wanted me to get an abortion. Not something I am willing to do (abortion). So I moved pretty stinkin far away and am going to have this baby on my own. But I've been having the problem with everyone asking "Who's the dad?" well I dont want to explain the situation so I tried just saying "I'm the dad and the mom." But not everyone will drop it. Anyone have any good idea's about what I can say to just-let it go? I mean I hate explaining that it was unplanned, and the dad's not even someone they know or someone who wants to be involved. I just need some advice! Thanks.
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don't feel bad,and who keeps asking u? I would just let whoever wants to know the father does not want to be in this childs life and thats it and if they keep asking you will have to be mean and say look leave it alone, you don't need extra stress right now so if people keep asking don't talk to them, you need to stay happy whats inside of you is a blessing belive me i just had a little girl also a single mom she is the best in the world don't what i would do without her. Stay strong good luck
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if they press the issue after you've made your "i'm the dad and mom" statement, why don't you just tell them it's a bad situation and really not something you care to discuss. but make sure you're firm about it b/c they'll usually back off when they realize you REALLY don't want to talk about it.
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Don't worry about what everybody said..my pregnancy was unplanned to as well..and the father ain't involved..so i'm a mum/dad herself already. my daughter doesnt even wanna know her dad as from the start she hated him. so she's doing really good without him
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I am in the EXACT same boat. The dad left me when he found out that I wouldn't have an abortion..so I too am going to raise my baby on my own. People ask me all of the time who the dad is, I always just tell them that he is a jerk that it didn't work out with. Usually people stop prying when they see that it makes me uncomfortable to talk about him. So good luck to you, you shouldn't have to explain to anybody!:)
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I just say, "It didn't work out between me and the father. It is really better this way." If they ask further I say, "I really don't even know where he is. He changed his number and moved." That usually ends the conversation.
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