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I was wondering if someone could give me some advice. Im 2 months pregnant and my boyf left me a couple of weeks ago took everything cause he didn’t want me to keep the baby, so I said I would get rid of the baby. Now I realize this is something I just cant do I don’t know how to get myself out of it. I love him, but am really angry and hurt by him, that he treated me this way. He keeps on about the abortion when will I get it sorted, and all along im lying to him. He thinks we can carry on as normal now like nothing ever happened. I was thinking, should I just lie, and tell him that I have got rid of the baby, so I can at least get a few months rent out of him. He was going to leave me in a financial mess, but now he is back with me it will be ok. Does anyone have a thought on this? He will hate me and leave me again once he realizes I wont be getting rid of the baby anyway. I just thought that this way I would get my own back and some rent paid too.. I will be able to sort my self right out.
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This is tough. The thing about lying is... there's no way for it not to eventually come out, and what would he do once he finds out? do you think he would hurt you? or maybe do something to you so that you lose the baby? I would just tell him the truth right now.. and get him out of your life. You don't need him. Are you in the US? because if you are there are plenty of government programs to help single moms in your position. You can probably get cash a__sistance, food stamps, medicaid, and WIC, as well as electrical a__sistance (depending on how much money you make). You do NOT need this guy. He's a selfish jerk. Anyone who would want to kill his own child is not worth sticking around with, in my book. You just take care of yourself and your baby!
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