|
|
|
|
|
|
My boyfriend of 10 years is leaving me 8 months pregnant with our second child. I have no idea what went wrong it all happened in a month. He says he needs time to himself. For the last two weeks he has said he's moving out. All his stuff is packed and ready to go but he is still here. He went from a loving father and boyfriend to a guy I do not know. The only person he cares about is himself. It's no fair he gets to walk out with no attachments no cares while I stay where and care for the kids and pay the bills. He never comes home after work, not even to see his daughter. He shows up at the house at midnight just in time to go to bed. I do not know wheres he has been. Last night I mad the mistake of thinking he cared about me and ended up having s_x with him. After the s_x he turned his back to me and ever said another word. What am I going to do? I love him and I want things to work. I am so lost, please help me, I do not want to be a single mother.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I'm no expert Sarah. But I have been were you are. There is 2 answers to this question. But only one is right for you, and that is for you to decide with him. Either he is wanting to go, but just needs to stay with you until he figures that out and is using you in the process. Or He wants to be with you and the thought of having another baby is making him question things-like(is he getting old-is there going to be anytime for the 2 of you after the baby comes.) Now you need to decide wether you and your duaghter would be better with or without him. Sadley you can't think of just your feelings. You have to stop and think how this is and will affect her too. It isn't easy being a single mom, but you can do it if you have too. Or children awake a strength inside we never new we had. I have 2 kids and a new one the way. You might love him with all your heart, but is this worth hurting over and over again? You know the answers, wether your ready to answer them is up to you. I wish you all the luck in the world. Bless thoses children of yours.
|
