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Yes, I'm feeling better. I have my good days, and I have my bad. I am just trusting that things will fall into place eventually. I do have $ for a court battle, but I would rather just sit back and let him make the first move, and then proceed from there. If it's anything like I'm thinking, he most likely will not take the time and effort needed to fill out paperwork with the court. I'm sure he'd rather just think I'm a b**** who is "kidnapping" his child than to actually do what it takes to develop a sound parenting plan :(
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Mischelly, I don't think I ever asked you... are you planning on putting his name on the birth certificate?
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Yes, if I can. I am not sure if the hospital will let me put him on it without him being physically present...which of course he will not be. I also am not sure if the court will automatically start the establishment of paternity process (which I DON'T want them to do). I know that, in CA, the BC alone is not proof of paternity, but I don't know if it "gets the ball rolling," so to speak. So, basically, I would like to just so that my child has his or her father's name on a semi-official piece of paper, but if I can't because he is not present or because it will start the paternity process, then its no skin off my back...we're better off without him anyhow.
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