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as a matter of fact, i do feel like i am being christian -like. the world today has just plumeted. killing babies that all they wanted was a life ?? amberlee, im not buying the fact that you were TOTALLY innocent . i believe that maybe you could have gotten the gawl to go to the police.....geez, you had the gawl to kill a baby ! i felt that you just didnt want to deal with the baby's father which is VERY immature of you. you should have given that baby a life whether it was with you or not. you could have put it up for adoption. oh !! AND IF YOU ARE THAT DEPRESSED ABOUT THE WHOLE THING..... how come you have time and energy to come on here and argue with me ? why get advice from total strangers rather than a counsler or family member you trusted ?? after all, it WAS a human life ....

ash2 just shut the hell up. you're taking this too far. shes standing up for herself you're just being a fool. Sometimes its easier to talk to people you dont know than family and friends. Not everyone deals with things the same way you do and thank god for that. Nobody cares about what you have to say so dont even bother.

I kinda agree with ash2 its not the baby's fault why can't you love it anyways? I really wish they would outlaw abortion..

ash2, you are a joke. You havent got a clue. I didnt come on here to argue with you, far from it. I came to talk to sane people, not total psycho's like you. Deal with the babys father.. oh of couse.. I never thought... I should set up a meeting with him shouldnt I "Oh do you know that night you held me down and forced yourself on me, well I'm pregnant, lets forget how it happened lets bring the baby up together as a family, it doesnt matter that you've ruined my life" DONT even question why I didnt go to the police because you have absolutely NO idea, if you did I feel you wouldnt be saying such things. You just cant see past the facts that what was right for me isnt something you agree with. Grow up. I arent half as ashamed as I am of someone like you. Don't post to me anymore, I'm not interested in your ridiculously stupid posts.

Em, thanks for the chat we had earlier, you really helped! Your daughter is beautiful x

Ok so momy2b and ash2 why dont you 2 go get raped then have the man who violated you get you pregnant you are the people who stop the world going any ware because you are so closed minded. And ash2 are you pregnant are you married because if you not married and have a sprog on the way that very un cristian like!!!! damyou people this poor girl was RAPED she still needs to get throu this and she does not need a constant reminder i really feel for u amberlee i hope your coping ok xxxx

Ash2 is married but she is also having MARRIAGE PROBLEMS.. Maybe we should all point and laugh at her since she makes everyone else feel bad about the things that they have to deal with. Maybe she'll get a divorce which some people don't think is very christian-like either. Thats also not fair to the baby but nobody is nearly upset over this kinda thing! ash2 is a nut.

amberlee, i didnt say that you had to be with the husband, i said adoption was an objective ! mummy to paris... yes ! i am HAPPILY married with 2 beautiful children. i have been married for 5.5 years, ( the least i can say for you littlemomma) .. yeah, married people have fights, but we dont kill our babies :) , and this is children we are talking about, not being married. littlemomma, quit trying to change the subject because you feel guilty or perhaps..... not even married !!

BTW little moma, at least it is just an argument that me and my husband had ( that we have made up for) rather than a stupid post such as " my husband/boyfriend is leaving me for another women...or, " my baby's daddy wont take care of our son".... dont go there girlie.... i can bite back !!

i have never made a post like that. YOU DONT EVEN KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT ME. So go ahead and bite back. I didnt say divorce was bad. I was just trying to give you a taste of your own medecine. Maybe you should grow up and start acting your age. I think you're a b___h and I dont feel guilty about anything. I don't have anything to feel guilty about. Unlike you. You should feel guilty about the things you have said to amberlee. He point was the whole pregnancy is too much to handle and you just can't seem to understand that b/c you're so closeminded. Maybe you should PRAY about it and realize you are wrong.

i have prayed... prayed that god forgives her for the sin that she commited ! and that he will eventually end abortion..... you ask why would god allow something like rape to happen to her ?? well god does things for a reason, and we may never know why, but eventually we will. and what god gives to someone, you shouldnt take away. maybe that baby was a way of making amberlee into a better person ( not saying that she is a bad person, but everyone has their flaws)... and i also want to point out that you ladies are the only one's cursing at me ! i have not said one curse word.... ( maybe because i am confident in what i am saying and dont need to get angry when im trying to prove a point because i am right !

haha ok well i can say with confidence that I think you are 100% a b___h. goodbye!

ash2 it is only in your OPINION that you are right. You cannot go around thinking you are the only one that is right. You feel whats "right" for you, and others know what is "right" for them. I just find it strange how you turned on me like that only after I said I had gone through with it. Yes I know adoption was an alternative, and what I have been saying all along is how it felt to actually be pregnant, and that was VERY bad, I know you wont understand that because you have had children that were made with someone you love. This was made through the worst ordeal imaginable. I know you wont ever even try and understand my point of view so it is pointless saying this. You don't have to "pray" for me, I do find that very patronising, I have done nothing wrong. Instead of wasting your prayers on me, why not pray for the soul of the b___d that committed the sin against me. It could have easily have been you that was raped, and I hope that you never are. Believe me, you wouldnt be sitting there thinking oh its ok, god did this to me for a reason. i dont believe in that bull anyway, I put my faith into other things. I havent been bad in my life. One day, I will have children that I will love, with a man I love. I thinks think thats all most people want - to be happy. Things happen and it doesnt always go the way you want it to, and you have to do what is right for you, and if someone doesnt agree with that, then thats tough luck for them because they aren't the one that has to deal with it. I do not understand some of your comments. How is "not dealing" with the "father" immature of me? He was supposed to be a friend and he raped me, leaving me too scared to go out of my own house, and covered in bruises and feeling disgusting. I'd just turned 18 and nothing like that had happened to me before. Questioning why I never went to the police.. well I have explained that earlier but you havent understood it (or read it). And questioning the depression.. Well that doesnt stop me trying to get advice from somewhere. As I have said earlier (which you also dont seem to have read) I have the support of my mum, and a counsellor at a rape crisis centre, as well as my doctor and had an abortion counsellor. But I am ent_tled to come on here too. You say how the world has plummeted, well that is due to such narrowminded individuals as yourself. I saw a comment of yours that deplored homos_xuality. And of course, the biggest reason for fighting all over this planet - religion. Have a good day.

and thank you little_momma & mummy2paris, it is nice to see there are people with their own minds and understanding on here, many thanks!

Amberlee, i am going to say my final and last comment on here and i will wash my hands of this post..... what i think you did was wrong. i will always think what you did was wrong. i believe that you were going to abort the baby regardless of what " advice " you got from here...( which is why im confused as to why you are even asking for it.) abortion is an awful way out . it was a human being, and if your mother was raped, and decided to abort you, then you wouldnt be here today either. i look at it this way.... that baby could have been the person to cure AIDS, or even better, a person that could make the most loving couple a family. that baby is not a mistake ! what that guy did to you was ! you should have put it up for adoption . for your info, i have been raped..... i did not get pregnant, but i did go to the police and turned him in ...! why ? because i did not want him to do it to another girl ! and it was worse than a friend, it was my boyfriend ! im sorry we disagree, but that baby should have lived !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!