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Amberlee, i am going to say my final and last comment on here and i will wash my hands of this post..... what i think you did was wrong. i will always think what you did was wrong. i believe that you were going to abort the baby regardless of what " advice " you got from here...( which is why im confused as to why you are even asking for it.) abortion is an awful way out . it was a human being, and if your mother was raped, and decided to abort you, then you wouldnt be here today either. i look at it this way.... that baby could have been the person to cure AIDS, or even better, a person that could make the most loving couple a family. that baby is not a mistake ! what that guy did to you was ! you should have put it up for adoption . for your info, i have been raped..... i did not get pregnant, but i did go to the police and turned him in ...! why ? because i did not want him to do it to another girl ! and it was worse than a friend, it was my boyfriend ! im sorry we disagree, but that baby should have lived !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ash2 learn how to read. not once did she ask for advice on whether she should have an abortion. that was a decision she had already made. she merely wanted support and help about her so-called friend. anyways, your last post was much more civil and i apologize about my previous post (if you even read it) wasn't one of my most mature moments

Well that is your opinion and I respect you for it. The only thing I was annoyed about is that you were questioning how I dealt with the aftermath of being raped. We dont all do the same thing. You cant tell me what I "should" have done, thats like me telling you you shouldnt have reported your rape, or you shouldnt have kept your children. And again, I've already explained what the pregnancy was doing to me. I really didnt come here to ask peoples opinions on abortion, because yes I had decided to do it after wracking my brains. I just thought perhaps there were people who had been in the same situation, and there was. One person inparticular who has helped me so much because she's been where I have. Good luck with your family.

oh c___p...missed a whole bunch of posts before i posted my last one. ash2, you have your opinion sweetheart but it does NOT mean you are right. maybe people were talking about you & your hubby getting in a fight due to bad karma being focused at you ash2 for being a spaz. c'mon, seriously...noone is going to agree..throwing around "killing babies" yup, you sure are mature ; ) oh, and before you go a__suming , NOPE i'm not married, very happily living in sin with my 2 beautiful daughters and the man i love...guess i'll see you in hell ash2 for being a judgemental b___h

hhaha JJB thank you thank you thank you! You put it so well. Especially the see ya in hell part lol. i love it.

“Religion misOVERstood is poison.” Stop using God’s name as a way of a weapon. One thing all these so called “Christians” failed to remember is free will and opportunity to create your own destiny. God gives us blessings all the time but not every time do we take them. And the last time I checked no sin was greater than the other. So calm down people. We all will have to answer for choices we made one way or another. No I’m not all jumping for joy over abortion but I be d__ned if I’m going to think I’m better than someone because of the choice they made. I believe if Amberlee thinks she did the right thing for her and this baby, then I agree 100% - not that you needed anyone’s approval, I’m so sick of people telling others to put it up for adoption so they have a better chance of being molested or abused by a “loving couple.” How many kids are in shelters now waiting on that “loving couple that can’t have kids?” Seems to me there are plenty left but nobody is running up taking those kids, are newborn babies only good enough? No disrespect to Amberlee - but you have no idea if she had the mindset, the means, nor the ability to take care of this child. What if she kept the baby and it was here suffering, no food, no place to stay, abused, and neglected? How many of these ugly minded women stepped up to say I'll help you in any way with this child, anyone...umm silence, ay? Amberlee, the world is full of a__s wholes that have nothing better to do except judge. You take care and be strong (which you have shown that you are-especially dealing with the people on here) as I’m pretty sure that was probably hands down the hardest thing you had to do, along with dealing with the rape. I’ve had someone fondle me - but I got away before anything else took place - a year ago, I’m 23 now, and I never told anyone. Understand people who are ignorant to your situation are lucky because that’s means they never had to go through what you have.

Normally I do not like abortion to happen and think it is a killing, but some cases like this I support it. I know it is not easy specially for the mother so I will not accuse her. Amberlee what ever you thought to go with your life is ok. Also go on with your life. But now on be extra careful where you go and what kind of friens you keep.