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I am sorry for your situation. If my calculations are correct you were only with your bf not even 4 months before getting pregnant. If this was an unplanned pregnancy then it sounds like your bf is just not into being in a committed relationship for the sake of a pregnancy...Being pregnant is scary enough, even if you are married and in an emotional and financially stable relationship. Your situation sound unsure all the way around and the thought of being alone is really hurting and scaring you--with good reason! There is not much any of us can say. You need to have a deep and serious talk with your bf and have him open up to you have his feelings, fears etc. At the end of the day, hopefully you both will come up with the best plan and strategy for your baby, even if you do not remain in a relationship. I am sorry dear, good luck and let us know how your talk goes!

Well it was sort of a planned pregnancy. We had talked about it before and we just let whatever happen happen. We werent sure if I would get pregnant because I have problems with my overies and my doctor told me that it would be a mircal for me to become pregnant. Thats why this relationship and pregnancy is soo important to me. I feel we were put together for a reason. We have known each other for a couple years before we started dating so its not like he some random guy . When I tell him how I feel he tells me I am being crazy and that I shouldnt worry about that stuff and to trust him. I told him that I thought he only asked me to marry him because of the baby and he told me he had the ring for about 2 weeks before we found out and that he was plan on doing it on our trip to vegas for my 21 birthday. So thats why i think i am just being crazy.

You definitely aren't being crazy! A lot of women have worries or concerns about being pregnant and how their man is really thinking. Some men have a hrd time dealing with the sudden changes in their g/f's or wives mood. All these crazy hormones do strange things to a womans emotions. I already had my bf tell me i have emotional issues, and i just found out i was pregnant 2 days ago. I told him he ain't seen nothing yet...LOL! I know it may be difficult, but try not to worry so much. Enjoy this time.

Thanks. Thats what my friend that just had a baby said. She told me the whole time she thought her bf was going to leave her that at one point she kicked him out. Congrats on the baby and if you need to talk im here too for ya

Thank you, same here! I'm sure you could start a topic on here about how many girls had these same feelings and get responses in the hundreds. I think it's fairly normal to feel this way, it's one of the most vulnerable times in a girls life. I hope your feeling a little better, and i hope your b/f becomes more understanding and gives you the extra love that you need right now.

Hey you. I'm 18 weeks. I know how you feel. I was with my boyfriend of two years up until recently, far away from home, not knowing anyone but him (he just moved there). He was gone at work the whole day and barely spoke to me once he got home, even though he kept saying he wanted us to be a family. It was awful. I felt a lot better once I decided to spend the rest of my pregnancy with my family. I will figure out what to do with him once baby is here. You aren't being crazy. You are going through a really intense experience and need to be around people who will support you. It will be okay. We will both get through this.

Snowfake your probably right lol :) Paisleypajamas thank that help. I'm sorry that you have to deal with that. How is he now that you moved back home?? I talk to my fiance and things have been better. We have been going out alot me. He took me to dinner and a movie last night it was nice. It just sucks because all i do is go to work then home. All my friends ditched me once they found out i was pregnant. So only having him to talk to I know how you feel. I feel like I moved away and dont know anyone. Sometime I think it would be better if me and him up and moved went some where no one knew me or him and we could just start over. I am just ready for this baby to be here and see how things go from there.

Snowflake you are probably right. Paisleypajamas im sorry you have to deal with that. I understand how you feel when i told everyone i was pregnant all my friends just started to disappear. They wanted nothing to do with me. It sucks so its kinda like being somewhere my fiance is the only one i know. Sometimes i think it would be better to just move somewhere that no one knows either of us and we can just start over. Things are better now that i talked to again. He has even started taking me out like last night we went to dinner and a movie it was nice seeing how the last month and half all i did was go to work come home make dinner go to bed it sucked. He has even started cooking for me he has been telling me to relax and get my rest that i have been doing way to much for him. Its nice but in the back of my mind i wonder if its just because he doesnt want me to figure out he is going to leave. grrrr i cant get those thoughts out of my head. I hate it. I am just read for this baby to be born so i can see what happens. I want to be believe we will be a happy family.

opps i thought that first one didnt post sorry guys ignore that lol :)