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i know this is an awful situation for you to be in, but i think its unfair for you to be so unkind to people that would desperatly wish to be in your position. yeah your stuck but maybe you should of been more responsable in the first place and stop rubbing it in peoples faces. i think your selfish for the way you talk to the people on this forum.

Okay...here is what you should do....STOP being a selfish b___h hog, and give the babies to their father who wants them! So what if he has anxiety, there are things he can do to treat that, and I am not talking about using any kind of illegal drugs! You obviously do not want the infant twins that are growing inside your selfish body, so why not give them to someone who will love and care for them? THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING A SINGLE PARENT! My father was a single parent, and I am still alive and well (and I am in my 20s!) One of my best friends is a single father of triplet toddlers, and he raised them from infants with very seldom help from family. So if you read this post, and are still thinking selfish thoughts....Well....that we can not help you anymore, sorry. I hope you change your thoughts and actions for the better. ~Blessed Be~ :)

I am sorry for being rude in my previouse post, but I really hate it when people in your situation are rude and selfish and are really mean to people especially the the father.

to the father...oops... :)

To the person who signed "be blessed"... You're a prime example for why a child needs a mother. Thanks for the reinforcement.

"To the person who signed "be blessed"... You're a prime example for why a child needs a mother. Thanks for the reinforcement." Oh okay....what the hell do you mean that I am a prime example of a child needing a mother??? Please, answer me that....cause I would really like to know!

To the one who said Blessed Be....just ignore "Reluctant" she is just really closed minded. Most likely a Christian or Catholic who thinks all other religions are evil. So saying Blessed Be and it being a part of the Wiccan/Pagan religions people who are closed minded like that WILL say mean and rude stuff like that. I just don't get why she has not answered your question as to what she ment....cause is she really ment something she should just say what it is....she obviously ment jack sqwat! Okay...and to "Reluctant" I do agree with the gal or guy who said Blessed be, you should just let the father have the babies and stop being selfish!

I mean that you're an insecure hag. You should know that by this point in your life.

And to "Just my opinion".... I didn't answer until now because I have other things to do than sit in a chat forum all day.

Why is it that you had to come back with another immature comment? I was just trying to be helpful and let you know my opinion on your actions, but you obviously can't except the truth for what it really is. To "Just my opinion..." Your right...she most likely is a really closed minded person, there really are too many of them in this world....sad really. ~Blessed Be~

To "Blessed Be"..... I believe you started the insults by calling me selfish.

reluctant-oh my god....you need to grow up!!!!!! i think the best thing for those babies is for you to give them up!you come on here to ask for peoples help/opinions then thow it in their faces when they say something you dont want to hear.

Reluctant.... the only reason that the one who ended her post with blessed be said your being selfish is because you ARE! You just can't except the truth! Grow up!!!

I could care less what Blessed Be thinks. I was just stating that I did not start the insults. She can dish it out but can't take it. I never denied being selfish. And I really don't care if people don't like it. And why are you people still continuing to post? I said I'm keeping the babies, so we can ALL be selfish. lol.

good luck

Hello Reluctant, Whatever you decide, I'd be cautious about adopting and people suggesting you can "get around the father". They're his kids too, so if he wants to keep them, then you should get him to sign legal doc_ments stating he will have full custody. If he is not willing to do this, then he needs to sign over parental rights. But he is still the father and has a say in this (or at least he SHOULD despite legal loopholes). I am single and trying to adopt or conceive a child. Adoption is tricky for singles, unless I want to go international adoption and pay a lot of money, and ttc is tricky because the donor process is a mess. I'd love to be considered for adopting your kids if you do go that route. But I think this is a big big thing that you and the father should sit down with a lawyer or other sort of mediator and figure out. I would suggest having a family meeting...you, him, the grandparents and decide what is best for everyone, including the babies. Try and have a mediator in the room (like go to a family counselor or lawyer) as this will help facilitate communication and hopefully prevent things from melting down and becoming a shouting match.. best of luck and email me if you would like to consider me for adoption or just would like to chat: indygrrl34@yahoo.com