Problems With Boyfriend During Pregnancy
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im a little over five months pregnant and it seems like my boyfriends been having more mood swings than me. wev been together for about 7 month but ive known him over 10 years before since hes my bestfriends brother and all. hes always acting like he doesnt care about me. ive asked him to feel the baby kicking but he hasnt touched my stomach since i was pregnant. one day he will tell me he loves me than the next he will be saying he doesnt and that hes only with me because i am pregnant than a few hours later he says he loves me again and only said those things because he wants me to feel how i made him feel. i think honestly if i wasnt pregnant he wouldnt be around. he tells me all the time how stupid i am and that i complain too much. i work a full time back breaking job and if i want to come home and lay down he yells about that saying i shouldnt be tired but than all he does is sleep and play video games his job isnt even too hard hes a bus boy. if i ask him to do any thing for me he tells me just cause your pregnant doesnt mean you cant do anything. i know im complaining now but i need somewhere to vent where people might actually listen and someone to be on my side for once
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Sympathy! A sad story, but not uncommon. I don't hear that he is manic-depressive, just very self-centered, low self-esteem, perhaps plain depressed, or manipulative. What does your best friend have to say? She has known him for 20 years. Do you really want to be worked to the bone, yelled at and made to feel small for the rest of your life? Look at this relationship for what it really is. My contact info is on my profile if you want to vent more. GL!
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If you are single and pregnant, you don't have to be! Check out my profile for Facebook page information on finding a man that will love and adore you during and after your pregnancy, or search 'Pregnant and Single' in Facebook. I have also established a Yahoo group called 'PREGNANTNSINGLENLA' to put single pregnant women together with men who possess a strong s_xual attraction for pregnant woman. So, if you're still pregnant and single, that is purely your choice as you don't have to be.
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