We Broke Up And Now Im Pregnant

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nicholette - July 22

My boyfriend and I broke up after he hit me..... as a result i went and had a one night stand with another to get over him...Lame I know.... I got my period and had all test result come back negative for stds. Than less than a month later in a weak moment i went back to my ex. Now Im pregnant.....together for a year and it happens now. When i told him i was pregnant he was shocked but supportive at the same time. Told me that he was going to be there no matter what or that he would raise the child on his own....he says no to abortion. Within the next few days he asked if i had slept with anyone and I told him the truth about when we broke up. He says im an embarrasment and he said goodbye. Now he wont answer my calls or texts and I dont know what Im supposed to do. I know its my fault for going back and being with another but its not the babys fault. Alone and scared

 

Grandpa Viv - July 23

The boyfriend is unstable, maybe controlling, and no prize. Please let go of the idea of getting back with him, then make whatever decision is necessary to get on with your life. Ask yourself if you have any work to do to quit being attracted to this kind of guy. Best of luck!

 

searching - July 25

consider adoption?

 

NJTCRT2005 - July 30

dear nicolette, I was wondering how everything was going?

 

nicholette - July 30

Have good support since I told my mom and a few close friends No contact with the "guy" that got me pregnant. At least I know now how it all went and I've made a choice to move on and stay away from him. Guess everything happens for a reason. It was a hard past few weeks. I've become in debit because of this guy about 40,000. But at least now I know I xan be strong without this abusive guy. Just trying to keep my head up and make sense of my life. I have a daughter who is almost 16 and got to try to represent for her. I finally got a job that starts on tues. Haven't worked got a yr because I was relying on that guy. Might be broke fir a while but least I won't have anymore black eyes. Thanks for the support. Feels good even though I don't know who I am talking to.

 

NJTCRT2005 - July 30

I am glad to hear you got a job and you are doing ok. How far along are you in your pregnancy if i may ask?

 

pregnant_single - August 13

If you are single and pregnant, you don't have to be! Check out my profile for Facebook page information on finding a man that will love and adore you during and after your pregnancy, or search 'pregnant and single' in Facebook.

 

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