14 And Pregnant Pg1250554298
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hey im 14 and almost 2 months pregnant. ive only told a few freinds and of course the baby's father. he's 17 we've been together for a year and a half and he's very excited about it. he's only told one of his friends though. im still a lil scared.. any advice??
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Relax don't be scared im in the same position as you... Well a little different cause now im 35 weeks pregnant. I was also 14 when i got pregnant and my boyfriend is now turning 18. Well like I said don't be scared try to get all the support and help you can get from your family and friends. But also try to get into programs that will help you (trust me there's a lot of programs out there). Also keep Going in school because the people there are your best way of getting a lot of help and support.
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wow that must be hard, well im 17 and 30weeks pregnant, so if u need any help.. questions about my pregnancy or yours feel free to ask me.. im from australia so our times are differnt but ill try get back to u when i can xox best of luck
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Wow.14 is really young..umm I suggested this to another young girl.get on medicaid.of corse not forever.but while your pregnant.it'l help you a lot.it'l pay for your delivery and everything..
Umm idk wat else.but if you have any questions feel free to ask:).
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I'm 14 too I'm about 6 weeks pregnant I figured out how to tell my mom and I'm telling her tomoro if u draw try this draw a picture of u just instead of a flat belly draw a pregnant belly and show your mom and wen she asks y you drew it calmly say bcuz I am that's wut I'm gonna do good luck :)
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No matter what age you are, You will feel nervous about your first child. Everyone will experience having to learn how to take care of baby. My advice is to just be strong when the baby is born. AND pregnancy has it's ups and a down. When you feel down just think about how worth it it all is. Just be strong and patient. And always remember that things will get easier as they progress. You get use to everything. I remember when my son was first born and I was so scared to even bath him. I had to learn all these things which I did. It was hard at first and there were times where I felt like I couldnt do it, but After a while I got into it. I did really well and I am still doing really well. It`s all a matter of letting people help you and allowing people`s input. ALSO read some books on babies. I reccoment what to expect the first year and the toddler years. I read all of the what to expect books and they help me to this day. goood luck n keep posting!
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Hey i was in the same position as u im 18 now on my 3rd baby im actually 25 weeks pregnant dialated at 1 cm already and i will say yes i am scared lol. But all i have to say is go with the flow take one day at a time with everything. it will all turn out the best.um for my first i used what ever i could for the meds lol but for my daughter i didnt have time so i had her natural witch hurt like hell. so its up to u for meds
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hi there , im 17 this year n im pregnant for 3months and 1 week i cant imagine how life gonna be...having a hard time here..
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I was 14 when I got pregnant the father was 18. Im now 15 father is 19 my son now 18 days old and it is hard not going to lie. But it is a blessing and I wouldnt take it back. You need to tell your parents and family asap believe it or not they will be there for you, I thought my mom was going to kill me and the babys father both but she was supportive threw the whole thing and she still helps me alot we are really close now. Yes stay in school though I realize now how important it is to set a good example and try to make your life the best you can for you and your baby. Everything will be ok though, hope everything goes good for you!
Also take lamos cla__ses they will help with labor alot!
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well firstly tq for all u guys help on advice...is been a hard time since the day i post now at least is settle down and the baby is 5 month now..during pregnant really got a lot of up and down. i do have some issue since the father n me r young...i cant stop thinking he is cheating on me. he dont really like 2 come home b cz he say im a trouble...he is a hot headed person im sad he always dont care my feelings omg i really dont know what to do is so hard...
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Just so you konw its not a good thing when you get pregnant that young. You may think that you its all going to be fun but its not that fun. I'm 17 and in high school and its hard for me to do my school stuff because im 12 weeks along. You can get lots of help from people and everything but you know that its not going to be easy having a kid at that age. you are going to have alot of responsibilities that you may not be ready for but you know what you have to grow up now. You can't be young anymore and you won't be able to go hand out with your friends as much and alot of things are going to be limited for now because of you having to care for a baby. I'm not trying to be mean but you have to realize what you are doing before you do it. I know that you may feel scared and whatever but your going to have to tell your parents some time soon so that you get the help that your baby will need while it is in the womb. Your baby will be the first thing that you have to deal with your not the first priority anymore. So oyu need to grow up and do it quick. Even your boyfriend will have responsibilities that he may not think about. Hope that you can support the baby thats on the way. I'm not trying to be mean im just saying how things are going to be from now on in your life after having the baby.
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honestly if your pregnant at 14 or any age under 20 just rememebr to take really really good care of yourself and be sure to get a pregnancy plan set up with your doctor being your young risks can take place and it's best to tell your doctor on how you really want things to go on D-Day.....oh and CONGRATS!!!
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