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14 Years Old

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Alright so I was raped about 5 weeks ago,and now im pregnant. Im 14 years old and have never been more scared. I didnt ask for this,but im not willing to get an abortion either,i think its wrong. My parents are supporting me in whatever my choice may be,but at the moment i have no idea on what i should do. Ive been taking care of kids my whole life and ive never had a problem but im thinking it will be very different when its my own kid. Im only a freshman in highschool,and i want to be a neonatal nurse. I know its going to be hard for me to go through school,and goto college if i dont give the baby up for adoption. I dont think i want to do that either though. I completely clueless and lost on what to do! Please help me.!

Grandpa Viv - January 13

BlueEyes, so sorry you are in this predicament. It is a life-changing event. If your mom is cool with having a new baby in the family, that may be the way to go. As luck would have it, your baby will be born about when school starts. You may not have to miss much school at all if there is someone to stay home and care for the baby. I knew one family in this situation where mom would bring the baby to school for b___st feeding at recess! The chances of your family being able to handle this with no interruption to your academic career is slim, in which case one of the other solutions you mention will have to get serious consideration. GL!

leah0113 - January 17

I know what you're going throught with the whole rape situation. I was raped for 3 years when I was little. I'm so sorry it happened to you. I am only 15 and could possibly be pregnant. I have the same worries. I'm so happy that you didn't consider abortion. And if I was pregant, I would never be able to give up my child. There might be a charter school near you. I heard that they help with all sorts of things. Such as teen pregnancy. Maybe that can help you. It's also great that you're parents are supportive. I wish you the best of luck. (:

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