Boyfriend Bak Pregnancys Was Real
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Ok well not sure if people remember me.. I thought my girlfriend was pregnant and was very unsure.. Well its true SHE IS.. Shes already 31 weeks (yeah almost here) :) due date is may 18...
But i came to ask.. I am the type of guy i guess alot of girls hope to find (dont get me wrong no1s perfect) i treat her good buy her things and try to help out..Neva lay a hand on her or even cuzz at her or do any of that.. Im sweet and happy 24/7 with her and when im mad i try not to show it..And i even quit talking to ALL GIRLS FOR HER which i diddnt mind cuz i do love her and dont mind it at all...
But the main reason im saying all this is because i guess i have seen the side all guys/husbands/baby daddys dread... One day shes happy the next she thinks i maybe cheating/lieing/out somewhere which im not and i let her know shes beautiful when i get the chance (atleast once a day) and always let her know what im doing you know so she dont have to worry about any of those things.. And she apoligizes also for the things she does...
But now in her 3rd trimester she is completely different one day she was all in love with me and happy to talk to me... But lately the past few days she isnt really in the mood to talk to me.. (we live away from eachother not together).. At school is like she sorta tries but it isnt her.. She kinda dont talk to me now when with her friends she does and look happy.. She doesnt kiss me like she usually does now its a kiss n go speedie thing...
Also it might be cuz her family doesnt want me to have anything to do with her but we stay 2gether on the low low.. N its been hard with her brother used to being my friend and is in school with us.. (of course he runs bak to tell his parents which causes drama which may impact her mood)
Im not trying to make this a relationship question i just wanna know could this be a result of mood swings cuz seriously i do love her but i would hate to know this is nowhere close and us breaking up if you get me... Im worried and dont wanna lose my little girl.. or my girl..
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Parents have more influence than we like to admit. She is probably getting a constant drip drip of propaganda against you, and it is beginning to take effect. On top of this, she has a lot on her mind. I think you should say to her "I understand that your parents want me out of your life, and I can tell you are wondering if that would be for the best. Just know that no matter what happens, I love you and this baby and always will, but if you want me to back off for right now, just say the word, and I'll cool it." Make no mistake, this child is going to form a tie between you that will last for life, no matter what her parents say. GL!
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ouch, poor you....and your girlfriend. i a__sume you are both living at home with your parents and so like grampa viv (gv) says she is probably getting a lot of pressure from her family to distance herself. but you have a lot of courage and obviously concern for the situation to come on here and open up! good for you. i agree with gv and hang in there and be as much for your gf as possible and be there for the birth. you will always be connected. what do your parents say? is there a possibility that your parents and her parents meet and discuss things....? good luck and take care!
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Sorry for late response been real busy...
At Grandpa Viv & lunamoo
Thanks for the support :)..Yes we really do get alot of influence from parents..
At Grandpa Viv
I took your advice and let her know i understand the situation and let her feel im in for whatever..
At lunamoo
My mom (my step dad is no help) and her mom have talked when we first fully found out it was true.. It diddnt turn out well which is where all her moms problems came from...
Her parents are more of i shouldnt be apart of hers and the babys life and my parents are more of it happend and now its time to take action and accept what is happening and make a difference by helping
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los33, you are the father and therefore have equal rights to your child. as much as her parents want you to leave the scene, make it clear that you have no intentions of doing so. make sure you write down everything; who said what when concerning your child, dates/times as it might come to a court battle. if you feel up to it, i would ask to meet her parents and sit down and tell your plans. perhaps kindly remind her that its better to work things out in a friendly manner rather than a nasty court case. hopefully this woman will realize that it is far better to be positive and try to promote you two to raise as best you can your child together. good luck and keep us posted!
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Well i have tried the most that i can..
At the moment were gonna try and stay together without the parents knowing just till the baby is born so their isnt any stress...
Her parents dont like me cuz of things ive done in the past they know of..
Shes only got 3 more weeks to go and im trying to keep everything as settle and calm so she doesnt have to worry..
Im just hopeing after the baby is born things can get easier and her being scared of leaveing her parents and family to live with me is gonna make it hard
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