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Well I think I might be pregnant. I'm confused though because I can't remember my last period. I know I had one in November but I can't remember about decemeber. I've been so busy and stressed I just completely lost track.. My bf and I had s_x unprotected around mid december. I'm not on birth control or anything.. I usually get my periods at the end of the month or the very begining of the month and nothing has happened I'm freaking out. I have a few of the symptoms and my bf knows about the possiblity of me being pregnant. He said he will be okay with anything i want if I was but he wants an abortion because its not the right time.. I dont like the idea of killing an innocent little baby. It seems selfish of me if I do it.. I just dont know I'm so confused! Help!
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You should take a pregnancy test. If it comes up negative, wait and see if you get your period. If you don't within 2 weeks, take a test again. If THAT is negative then go see a doctor.
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okay well I'm taking a test today
and I'm praying im not pregnant.
And thanks for the advice =]
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If your pregnant DO NOT let him talk you into killing that baby if you don't want to. You will live with that for the REST of your life, and think about it everyday of every week for the rest of your life. If you want to get an abortion its up to you NOT HIM!
He may act mad at you, and everything but its far better to do what you think is right than being persuaded into killing a little human that is developing inside your body.
I was 17 when i got pregnant and it was the scariest thing in my life. I layed on my bed for TWO weeks crying watching TV and being depressed because i was SOOO scared, and i didnt know what to do, and even though my mom told me if i WANTED to get an abortion she wouldn't judge me for it and that it would be my decision but there was no way i could do it. I am 30wks pregnant now, and due march 18. I am the happiest EVER! Ya im scared, but i know i have a precious little baby girl that will be apart of my life for the REST of my life that is part me and part my fiance's. Ya we are going to have to work our b___ts off to pay for this baby and raise her, but we got pregnant, we chose to have s_x and i ended up getting pregnant so we are owning up to that and doing what we have to for our child.
Take a test, if its negative wait a week, then if its negative again you should be okay. But if by the end of January you dont have a period, and your tests are still negative. Go to your doctor... But make sure to start taking prenatal vitamins, if you are pregnant now its really good for your baby especially now because its brain is developing, and it helps A LOT!!! Plus even if you aren't pregnant and your taking them, it isn't bad, they are good for you too.
Make sure to talk to your parents. They may be FURIOUS with you but try to be at your friends house when you tell them, and leave them a note, or a pregnancy test where they can see it after your gone if you are too scared to tell them in person. But if you end up being pregnant, its better to tell them early on, unless they will make you get an abortion, and you dont want to, if that is the case wait until you are 20wks pregnant, or close to. After that you arent able to get an abortion. On the information you told me you would probably be around 7wks pregnant, that is an estimation, i just dont know exactly when the first day of your last period was.
Good Luck. If you need to talk or have questions you can write me. I've been through this stuff, and i know it helps to talk to people around your age, that already know what you are going through.
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well the test said i wasnt pregnant and so im hoping i get my period within the next week.
thank you guys so much for the advice its calmed me down a bit and it nice to have someone to talk to about it thats gone threw it.
and branjola good luck with the rest of your pregnancy and your baby girl =D
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JM762
Your welcome, and Thank you.
I hope everything goes well too. :)
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I got my period xDD
soooo happy!
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