How Do I Tell My Parents Help

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PregnantChick - November 19

Hi im 19 n jus found out im pregnant but i dont no how to tell my parents. im the tpye of person whos not to close to there parents and find it hard to talk to them about things so the only thing i could think of doin is txtin her and tellin her everythin in it. any ideas?????

 

Grandpa Viv - November 19

Are you still living in their house? You are adult enough that a mature face-to-face convo is called for. Texting would be an obvious cop-out. Maybe you could prepare the path with a text like "Got real important news - when can we talk"? Keep in the back of your mind that your baby is their grand-baby, and most older folk enjoy the prospect of seeing the family line continued. GL!

 

Advice Girl - November 20

i'm close to my mom too and idk how i'm going to tell her i was thinking of a text but that would just make things worse in my house im 18 and i'm not sure if i am or not so this is all just complicated...sorry i couldn't really help you but i think a text is not the way to go

 

mmp - November 21

if you are uncomfortable talking to your parents, perhaps you can invite an adult friend of the family to come to the house and then tell your parents with this additional person present whom the family feels comfortable with. chances are that your parents will help with finding you a good ob/gyn to help with your prenatal care. your parents will still love you. they may be hurt, if you are unmarried, but they want to help their "little girl" and make sure she still receives good medical care to keep you healthy

 

FABIOLA - December 6

WELL IM 16 ND IM STILL NOT SURE IF IM PREGNANT BUT I ALREADY TOLD MY MOM [[WE R REALLY CLOSE]] ND WELL WE R JUST WAITIN TO FIGURE OUT IF I AM OR NOT TO TELL MY DAD BUT MY MOM DIDNT FREAK SHE WAS DISAPPOINTED BUT SHE IS STILL GONNA HELP ME OUT ND STUFF [[SHE IS MORE EXCITED ABOUT THE BBY THAN I AM]] LOL BUT I DONT THINK TELLIN HER IN A TXT IS A VERY GOOD IDEA I MEAN UR OLD ENOUGH TO B HAVIN s_x ND WELL THEY R GONNA B SAD ND DISAPPOINTED BUT UR MOM MIGHT STILL HELP U OUT WELL I HOPE I HELPED...GOOD LUCK

 

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