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brittybaby105 - December 23

So one night my friend and I had unprotected s_x. It happened randomly and so yeah .. we both felt later that it was very stupid of us and we knew better. But then the next afternoon I went and got Plan B and took it. That happened on December 6th .. and last Monday (the 15th) I started feeling nauseous and it went on for 3 days. I never threw up or any .. just felt way sick. And that Wednesday night I told my friend I wasn't feeling well and was going to take a test the following morning. So last Thursday I took a test and the "control" line showed up as dark pink and the "pregnant" line showed up halfway. And then on Saturday i took another test and the "pregnant" line showed up way dark and fast and looks just like the "control" line. And then this morning I took the last test and the "pregnant" line was dark and then the "control" line was halfway there. And then for the last few days my br___ts have been feeling sore. I'm 18 and just finished my first term of college at the state university .. and so I'm really worried about school if I am pregnant. Also telling my parents. I'm pretty sure I am, it just doesn't feel real. Like a dream. I feel like I had a dream last night thinking I was pregnant and I don't want to go tell my mom because it was just a dream, ya know? If I am I know I will not get an abortion since I'm very against killing people ... and I know it would be hard raising a child, but when my mom was my age she went through the same thing so I feel as if I would have support from her, so I'm not too worried about keeping it. Yeah I know it will be way hard, but considering all the family and friends I have I know I have support. Anyways..what I wanted to ask (now that there's a little background) is .. am I really pregnant? I don't have health insurance or any money and would like to go to the doctors before telling my parents. Another issue is that there's so much snow right now I can't even drive anywhere. Would it be okay to wait to tell my mom? I go back to school (which is an hour away) in January and they have free healthcare stuff I can qualify for at the school's student health services .. or would that be too long to wait until I tell her? Also another thing is .. when do you start counting your pregnant? Is it bases off my last period? That was November 17th, and according to an online baby due date thing it says I'm 5 weeks pregnant but I had s_x like 3 weeks ago .. so I'm confused on that. The online thing only asked for my period thing and not when I had s_x..I don't know, haha, this is all way over my head right now. Any help or advice would be appreciated. =)

 

amanda17 - December 23

I'm confused... You said you took 3 pregnancy test and they were all positive? Why wouldn't you believe you are pregnant? You are! The plan B pill does not always work, and the online due date calculators are based on a 28 day cycle, which not everyone has. You should absolutely tell your mom right away. You need to start seeing a doctor and taking prenatal vitamins as soon as you can to make sure you have a healthy baby. The first trimester is the most important! Good luck and congratulations.

 

brittybaby105 - December 23

Yeah I know .. It's just so hard to believe. I have no idea how to tell her.

 

amanda17 - December 23

I know the feeling. When I told my mom I did it quick, like a band-aid. With my dad I wrote him a note, because I'm not very close with him and felt uncomfortable saying it. Their first reactions will almost definitely be disappointment and it probably won't be pretty. But, eventually, I'm sure they'll be happy for you. Once you get your ultrasounds and your belly gets bigger, it's hard to not be excited!

 

brittybaby105 - December 23

Yeah I know...two of my friends are saying they're so happy for me...the rest are understanding about how worried I am about school. And I know I love the baby forever too.

 

newbaby2009 - December 23

You can get prenatal vitamins at the drug store or even walmart. And you're 5 weeks pregnant even though the incident was 3 weeks ago because the count starts at the firat day of your last period even though you most likely dont get pregnant until 2 weeks later. Sounds like you have the typical 28 day cycle.

 

brittybaby105 - December 23

Okay I was confused how I could be 5 weeks .. that makes sense thanks. =) And yeah..my period is pretty regular and about 28 days. Thanks =)

 

V9653 - December 24

Sweetie, your disbelief is completely understandable. I went through the same exact thing. It took 5 pregnancy tests, a test in the crisis pregnancy outreach office, and two tests at the doctor for me to really get it through my head. Actually I still didn't fully believe it until I heard the heartbeat. There was some room for a mistake in my head for another 3 weeks, until I felt the baby kick! LOL!!! Here's an idea for the doctor. Look into a pregnancy clinic in your area. I found mine by contacting the crisis pregnancy hotline. They get you in contact with your local clinic. At the clinic they based the appointment bill off of my income and I only had to pay about 30 per visit. Also, it was billed to me, they didn't expect anything the first couple of visits. I did have to bring 15 dollars every visit after that. That idea is just in case you do want to go to a doctor before returning to school. To be honest I think it would be a good idea, and a good idea to tell your mother so she can go to your first appointment with you. Anyway, I have been where you are and if you ever have anymore questions just ask. I'm here for you!!!

 

angelmonkey - December 24

i am 33 weeks pregnant, was trying for my baby for 9 months i still take the odd pregnancy test lol!

 

brittybaby105 - December 25

I'm going to this free unplanned pregnancy clinic by my work tomorrow. So during my break I'm going with my friend. He's being somewhat of a douche about it. He just wants the results .. but our mutual friend is saying that he's still in shock and will man up about it soon. I just wish he would be more caring sooner.

 

Grandpa Viv - December 26

Congratulations, Britty. With a due date of Aug 24 you should have no problem finishing out the first year of college, which is the smart thing to do. You might be tempted to hide it from your mom until school lets out, but since she will be helping with the child-rearing, it would be better to break the news before going back to school. I hope the dad is supportive once he gets over the shock. You are going to have a lifelong relationship with him of some sort if you are both parents of the same child, so keep it sweet. Happy New Year!!

 

V9653 - December 28

Keep us updated, hopefully things worked out, and you found some support and answers!

 

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