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I am sorry to hear about that unfortunate event. Death in this life is never an easy thing to face. You say you believe in God though right? Try not to get lonely and stay in prayer. I wish you the best for you and your baby. Being a single mom is tough I imagine. I saw my mother take care of five of us when my father was in jail, and she's still here; so many women can do it under the harshest of circ_mstances. :)

thx for the luv hunny

Oh honey, the funny thing you'll learn about psych is that when your studying it and helping others it's like you have all the answers, but for yourself, none of that c___p seems to work to keep you calm in situations. The thing is, though, that it'll be a process. In months you'll see where you use what you learn to not go back to being that girl. It's hard I can completely understand. Though I can't say I understand what it's like to lose someone you love like that!! The thing is you are pregnant now, and it's time for practicing how you want your life to be when your baby gets here. Don't just sit back and wait for him to come to fill that void-that's putting too much responsibility on your baby to take care of you. I'm a child of a woman who needed me to fill a void, and I can say that has me sooo F***cked up!!! I never had a childhood, because even though they promoted one, there was still that underlying pressure and responsibility. I'm sooo scared my little boy will feel that way, because I am also comjpletely out of society and am kind of terrified to get back out there. I'm trying so hard though for him. So he won't have to suffer from my pain. He is a blank canvas and can become anything-he doesn't need my old crusty outlines or used paints. Hope everything goes good at the grave. Hopefully your visits will help you find the peace you need.

i'm sorry for your loss. i can't even imagine what it would be like to lose my husband so i commend you for being able to even function. i don't think i could do even that if i were in your shoes.

hey keep your head up babygirl things will start getting easier as the days and months goes by.. i havent lost my husband yet but hes in a situation where i can lose him anytime so i feel your pain.. try and keep your mind on what he left you that beatiful baby in your stomach to remind you of him.. baby girl think about all the good and remember him for that and when yall baby is born tell stories to your child about him and that will help you heal... ONE

Whoa, V9653, that a___logy about babies being a blank canvas gave me chills haha. It's so true. I've worked so hard to put all my baggage aside for my daughter so she can have a fresh start... I dunno, just when you said it like that it made me realize just how important that step was. :)

Mizz Angel, if this is true, which I have no reason to doubt, then why on earth do you WASTE so much energy and time on here causing and being part of so much useless drama!?!?! Granted you are not the only one, but heck you have made 3 threads! Your plate is full, if from what I understand is correct; you are a single pregnant teen just out of jail!!!!!! You have 3 very very difficult punches against you already. For your baby and your own sake, concentrate on your immediate future and take the necessary steps in a positive direction. Wasting time on here is not the right thing for you. Good luck and take a break from this website and focus on yourself!

you're right franny if you see the look............. and only the mature may comment thread I addressed that yesterday thx for the advice

thx so much my visit went well I sat there for hours almost till the sun went down and I feel so much better thx v and teddy and pfc for all u support I appreciate it so much......