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I'm currently 19 and been with my BF for 2 years roughly and recently he asked me about having kids, we've discussed it before but for the future... But this time he asked me about having a kid now... I do want children with him,and i'm not bothered bout our age i guess my main hesitation for giving him an answer would be cause i am unsure of my family's reaction if i told them that we were planning to have a kid...We live together with his 17 yr old bro (but he going soon) He works casually like me and i know we'd have support from his family.... I'm just unsure at this point if a planned pregnancy at 19 would be ok...
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Seems like you could get the family's reaction before committing yourself. My concern would involve finances. Have you really run the numbers - day care, diapers, baby food and all that? You may really find yourselves sc___ping the bottom of the barrel. GL!
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well, i have thought about all that stuff, and i am aware of what it takes to have a baby... i had to baby sit my nephew for a week while my bro was in hospital, so i was taking care of him... i do want a baby - and i am running over everything with my bf , letting him know all things we'd need to make it work - i know we've got support if we do decide to... as i said my main hesitation would be my family...weather or not they would be able to accept that this is our choice
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