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Hi so, first of all, me & my boyfriend didn't have intercourse, he gave me a fingering (not exactly 'fingered' he touched me but not entered) and I gave him a blowjob- but that happened 2days prior to my ovulation last month..When we asked the doctor he told us it's impossible that I got preg even if a very small amount of pre-ejaculate made it..but that wasn't enough to rest my mind.
So 12 days after our adventure we did a test- negative..but I started getting cramps, but I got my normal period (or seems that it was since it had the consistency and flow of it) on time. Then I started reading that some ladies still get period whilst preg & oh my god that really shocked me & I started worrying again. In the meantime cramps didn't subside so doctor made me have a transabdominal ultrasound (if preg it would have been around week 3-4) and nothing showed up, told me everything is normal..ovulation came normaly again but had some old blood too...we decided to get another preg test and after 3 mins negative was seen (test company said to read after 3 mins) ..me happy..then I went home and took out preg test (like an hour later) and there was a very very faint line which when I held the test against light ddn't show..but on the table it was seen..(btw test was +/ - kinda test)..now I'm waiting for my period again, getting PMS normaly..do you think I might be preg? yes I know doctor told me I'm a paranoid & never to do anything again because I worry too much..ps help me..btw mum knows about everyhting..not sure if she bleieved that we didn't have intercourse..
Thanks & pls I know I shouldnt have engaged in anything so pls be gentle with me..we promised never to do anyhting again..
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i say you're fine. you're not pregnant. what you saw was an evaporation line on the test which is why they say never to read the test after a certain time. if you had an internal sonogram, there's no if's, and's or but's about that. at 3-4 weeks, they would have at least seen a sac of some sort. moms never believe us lol. it's their job, and i don't believe you won't do something again. it's our nature to want to do that. so, you're fine. and if you want to do that, it's your choice, but when you do decide to become fully s_xually active make sure you're on birth control pills or he's wearing a condom (or both preferably for max protection other than abstinence) until you're ready for a baby. you're fine, though. it's not like none of us have had s_x ;-)
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Thanks Teddyfinch for rea__suring me..I'm so much of a paranoid! That's waht mum said (about the sonogram) & that if I were really her daughter I would start smelling sombody's cooking fish from the other end of the road & not really loving it! That's true (about mums) ..no I really don't want to do anything anymore..I feel aged due to worrying! I never want to feel like this anymore! It is even hard doing exams because a baby pops in my mind instead! The last part is true..but society normaly sees only teenage mothers as the 'sinners' - it's interesting how teenagers who engage in s_x and don't fall preggers point at teenage mothers! (referring to a friend of mine who gave me a piece of her mind about me having 's_x' when she's been at it for 5 yrs!) . Thanks very MUCH! :D
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Haha, oh my goodness girl! There is no way you are pregnant. Get a ma__sage and a manicure/pedicure :)
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