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Prior to pregnancy: Social life: I had one, but a damaging one. I hung out with a lot of people I didn't even like who were doing a lot of stupid things... In and out of jail, all of them either high, drunk or both at some point (though I never joined them myself) Just generally people no one wants to be around. I didn't even want to be around them, I still don't know why I didn't tell them to f*ck off sooner. I guess I thought I could help them. Family life: I barely had one. I wasn't close to anyone in my family. Education: My grades were c___p. I think my best grade was a C- and one D, the rest were F's. I just stopped caring all together. Relationship: I never got to see Harold. Now I get to see him all the time :) Personality: I was carefree in a bad way. I didn't care what happened to me or anyone else. I was just kind of drifting through life not really caring where I ended up just waiting for everything to be 'over.' Where I'd probably be now: I'm scared to think about it. After getting pregnant/giving birth: Social life: Don't have one! Which is better than having a c___ppy one haha. I maybe see a friend once a month and all they really do is watch me take care of Ellie. The ones who keep coming seem to enjoy themselves though. (I hope haha) Family life: I'm closer with my mom, my grandma, my sister [and her husband] and my brother's girlfriend who I consider to be family. And my uncle but that has more to do with my [other] sister being too stoned to talk so he found his way to my room and decided I was pretty cool hahaha Education: I am now FIRST in my cla__s getting all A's and the highest standardized test scores [in the english portion] in my school's HISTORY! Woo hoo! [Nevermind that my school is only like 6 years old lol] Personality: I did a whole 360. I care about EVERYTHING [and everyone] now. Especially Ellie and especially myself! I think I'm a lot more understanding, patient and cooperative now. :)

Before I got pregnant... I had a fantastic social life. I got to see my friends all the time. I had girl nights out. I went to my schools football games on Friday nights. I got along with all of my family. I loved to go and see them. Although my mom and I never really got along. I did fairly well in school up to. I got a b and c's. I had a good relationship *or so i thought* After i got pregnant: I was a freshman in highschool when i got pregnant. Social life: Well that went down the drain. None of my friends wanted to hang out or come and visit. I had one friend who i could go to though and she would look at me and say "i want a baby!" I would invite her over and i would tell her to take care of my daughter... After that she cried to me i dont know how you do it. Schooling: got better in time. My relationship: well i thought he was the one and what not well he cheated on me and got the other chick pregnant then ended up in jail so i realized "oh he isnt the one lol" you sordof skip the teenage years cuz you grow up so fast when you have a child.

I'd think it's changed me a LOT. If I hadn't gotten pregnant or settled down I'd be the party type, going out late type, wearing skimpy c___p and being 10 shades tanner than I should type. Lol. I'm being 100% honest.

V! Your story has me in tears! Yet another story of yours very similar to mine. It makes me wanna fly over there and give you a hug!!

God Amanda, you just reminded me of another thing-before B I hated being hugged-that's why I thought my ex was the one, he was the only person I felt comfortable letting get physically close to me, but now I love hugs-but real hugs. God I long for a hug. Amanda, you are so sweet, and you don't know how much it helps to come on here and feel that someone in the world understands. Right now I feel like I could die tonight and no one would know, no one would have known how I felt or understood any of this. We should get together and start a movement of hugs for moms. Just like the guy on the dave mathew's video, but for mommies, because sometimes mommies just need some love! We give love even when we think we have no more to give. We give patience and kindness even when we are annoyed and at our wits end! God we are frigging superhuman!!! LOL! I'll stop now, I'm on one!!!

Aww ***HUGE HUG!!!***

i wasnt really the party type im more of sit in and cuddle on the sofa on rainy day type lol!! thats why when i got pregnant and everyone was like aww are you not going to miss partying ect? i was like lol no........these days you go out and someone ends up getting stabbed! its quite sad really

i had my 1st daughter at 16 then my 2nd at 17 and now with my 3rd due on the 25th jan at the age of 19 i love been a mum (bloody hard) but worth it i was geting drunk stoned partyn to all hours of the morning left home at 14 if i didnt have my girls i wouldnt be the person iam having kids forced me to settle down and grow up now as a mum i barely stay up past 9